It is rightly said that the first year of marriage is important and equally the hardest phase in any couple's life. Whether yours is a love or an arranged marriage, there is always something to deal with during those first 12 months.
Marriage is an exciting, adventurous and fun phase to look forward to. But, along with the positive side, there is always something to worry about, and it all takes place in the first year.
If there is complete understanding and compromise between the couple, things can get quite smooth. If you are still getting to know each other, then you are in for a roller coaster ride. Families play an important role in a newly wed couples life as the two families turn to one, so you should welcome a lot of ups and downs.
Here are some of the reasons why the first year of marriage is the most important and the hardest:
Learning To Share Everything - It is important to share everything with each other in the first year of your marriage. Let your partner know the important things first, like your past and your future goals. Keep away from the disastrous truths as you can break it to him or her in the end of the year.
You Still Don't Know Each Other - Be prepared for surprises. In the first year of your marriage there are bound to be surprises, so welcome it with a positive mind and learn to live with your partner's faults . Remember no one is perfect, we all have our flaws.
Fights Will Happen - Fights will be there no matter what you do to try and avoid them. According to the experts, fights help to bring you closer as you get to see the bad side of your spouse. However, when you fight, don't be physical with your lady.
The Families Become One- Once you tie the knot, both families become one. So, learn to love and live with each other. Learn to know the differences between the families and accept each individual just the way they are.
You Get To Go Through Crisis - Once you are married, there will be a lot of crisis to deal with. Couples should have a positive mind to go through it hand in hand. You will also face turbulences in your path, so hold on to each other and face them through the first year of your marriage together.