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9 Reasons Not To Hold Grudges In Relationships

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Relationships are strange; they often do not work out the way they are supposed to. When two people live together or enter a relationship, many situations and untoward incidents may happen. Sometimes, unforgivable mistakes might be made in a relationship. Often, people hold grudges in relationships. Letting go of these grudges is not easy, especially if you think you have been wronged. However, resentment in a relationship can be the beginning of the end.

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Holding grudges in a relationship does not make sense. This is because it affects the quality of your life and that of your partner's. Healing resentment in a relationship is possible only when you are willing to let go of the grudges. Sometimes, you may hold grudges in a relationship without knowing it yourself. This grudge grows on you and comes out in the form of a jibe or taunt when you are angry.

Usually, that is how good relationships get ruined. That is why; be careful not to hold grudges in relationships. It is much easier to let go of a grudge than you think it is. In fact, the sooner you let go of the grudge, the better it is for you as a person. Remember, happy people make happy relationship. And as long as you hold a grudge, you will never be completely happy.

Here are some very simple reasons why you should not hold grudges in relationships.

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It Adds Emotional Baggage

Holding a grudge affects you much more than it affects the person against whom who have the grudge. It adds to emotional baggage that you have to carry around all the time.

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It Weighs On Your Mind

A grudge is like a debt, it weighs on your mind until you know it has been paid for. It can be one of the leading causes of depression.

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It Makes You Upset

Happy people make happy relationships and thus, you should try to work on things that make you happy. What is the point of carrying a grudge around like a dead weight that will never allow you to be at peace.

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It Makes You Resent Your Partner

When you hold a grudge in a relationship, it makes you resent your partner. Your partner is blissfully unaware of this but the resentment keeps eating you up from within.

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Hitting Below The Belt

The grudge often makes you vindictive and comes out at the least opportune moments. If you are having a fight with your partner, your grudge often comes out as a jibe or taunt that really hits below the belt.

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It Is Much Easier To Forgive

If you could actually do maths with emotions, you would come to a conclusion that is much easier to let go of grudges than keeping them.

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It Makes You Grow Apart

Grudges make you indifferent to the pain and suffering of your partner. That is why; keeping grudges makes you grow apart in relationships.

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It Makes You Silent

Silence that comes out of pain and resentment is not healthy for a relationship. And grudges often makes partners go silent in each other's presence. This silence grows into a rift that finally tears them apart.

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You Will Regret It

There is one thing that is common for all grudges; you always regret holding them in the end. Often, your regret comes only when it is too late to reconcile with your partner.

Read more about: relationships relationship tips
Story first published: Tuesday, May 20, 2014, 19:46 [IST]
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