14 Reasons Why Men Say No To Making Out

Friday, September 26, 2014, 17:31 [IST]

Have you ever wondered why your man says no to making out or making love? According to psychologists, there can be two reasons for this kind of a behaviour. It could be due to emotional reasons and the failure of the man to satisfy his girl sexually.

In cases where couples have been in a relationship for a long time, failure of the man to satisfy his girl sexually has been his reason for saying no to sex. In other cases, men have a typical kind of 'emotion', which they don't usually share with their partner.

Just like how women switch on their button to get turned on and switch it off when not in the mood, men too have almost the same characteristics. However, most women fail to understand this.

20 REASONS WHY INTIMACY IS IMPORTANT

After a few years of marriage, the feeling or desire of making out dies down slowly. This could be because the couples are busy in their own world or the feeling of getting intimate is lost for various reasons. Nonetheless, there are reasons why men say no to lovemaking or making out.

Here are some of those reasons that make a man to turn off his libido, take a look:

The Idiot Box To Blame

Blame the idiot box if your man says no to you when you want to get intimate with him. Soccer, cricket, basketball matches are way too important for some men. They turn down lovemaking to watch their favourite player in action.

Porn Is Better?

Porn is much better than the real deal with some men. Though, it is unrealistic, men seem to find this form of pleasure better.

Too Tired To Try The Position

When the woman is not ready to try out a new position, the man usually turns her down. This is one of the reasons men say no to lovemaking or making out.

A Gassy Tummy

After a full course meal, tummy gets filled with gas sometimes. Your man says no to you because he doesn't want to be put in a difficult situation.

Stress Is The Culprit

Stress plays a major role and is one of the reasons why men say no to making out. When your man is under stress, there is no way he can get into the mood.

'You' Aren't Arousing him Anymore

When you are not arousing him anymore, he can turn you down. However, this is not the attitude a woman deserves. If you aren't aroused by your girl, it's your duty to tell her. Your girl can try new tricks to get you turn on.

Disturbed About Size

One of the many reasons why men say no to lovemaking is that they are uncomfortable with their size. They worry if it's going to be enough for his woman to feel that pleasure.

Depression Has Sunken In

Depression is another thing that makes a man lie low when it comes to making out or making love. It is a silent killer to the mood.

Not In The Mood

When there are a million things running in his head, there is no way he is going to get in the mood to please you.

Sweet Revenge

Just like women, men too have a sweet revenge corner! If you have said no to him recently, he will give you the taste of your medicine.

Cause We Don't Connect

Sometimes, couples just lose that spark in terms of getting intimate. If the spark is lost, where will his interest come from?

Prefers To Avoid Being Bossed Over

There are a lot of women who are bossy in bed. If your man silently resents it, the best thing he will feel doing is to say no to making out or lovemaking.