Being in a relationship is bliss... Having that special someone with whom you can share your experiences with, just adds to the joyful state of being alive. After all, life is incomplete when you do not have anyone to share it with.
Usually relationships involve the girlfriend and boyfriend. Both meet through any medium, sparks fly and they enter into a relationship. If they find themselves in love, they get married. Sounds easy, right? That's what you think it is....
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Indian relationships are a bit complicated, especially for women. If you are in a relationship with a guy and if you people are thinking about taking it to the next level, you will have to involve both your families and that itself can create quite a stir. If your guy has been able to impress your parents, you know that it's your turn now.
Often, Indian parents are reluctant to accept that their grown-up children can be in a relationship, especially Indian mothers. No matter how traditionally you dress or how "Sanskari" you appear, it is still highly likely that she won't like you. What do you then? Will your relationship be based on her liking towards you....?
When you are in a relationship with that special someone and when you trust and value each other, it shouldn't matter whether others approve of your relationship or not. If your boyfriend's mother doesn't like you, do not worry.
Here are 10 reasons why you do not have to impress her.
Her Problem Is Not Your Problem
If your boyfriend's mother does not like you, it is her problem not yours. Do not start finding faults in yourself. Remember, if you were not worthy enough, you wouldn't be in a relationship any way.
Her Approval Is Not Necessary In Your Relationship
You are in a relationship with her son, not her. So chill, your boyfriend will not breakup with you only because his mother doesn't like you.
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You Cannot Please Everyone
No matter how hard you try, you just can't impress everyone. It is better to stop trying hard. Things will work around eventually if they are destined to.
You Can Never Change Her Opinion
No matter how much you sweet-talk her, she will always see you as the girl who STOLE her son away from her. It will definitely help staying away from such mentality.
She Will Try Intruding In Your Relationship
If you try to impress her a lot, chances are that she might think her approval is important to you. That might spell trouble in your paradise. It is important for her to understand that your relationship needs no approval from anyone.
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You Will Be Constantly Judged
She might question your values and your family if she truly doesn't like you. This might irk you to an extent.
Your Partner Values You More
Your partner and you should be in that state of relationship where he values you as equal. There should be contentment and trust among yourselves. The need for impressing someone will automatically disappear then.
Mothers Are Protective
It is in their nature to be protective of their son. She might think that none is worthy of her son. Respect her opinion and don't take it onto yourself.
Do Not Let It Bog Down Your Relationship
If your boyfriend is cool with it, you need to be too. Let him handle the issue if it gets too heated up.
Make Sure Your Boyfriend Stands Up For You
If your boyfriend loves you, he will stand up against all odds to be with you. Be assured in your relationship and things will definitely get better. Meanwhile, there is no need to prove your commitment levels to any other person except your partner.