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Does true love exist? Or is it just in the movies? Well, relationships are complicated but love is a very simple phenomenon. Read on to know why we fail to see unconditional love...
Relationships are complicated but love is a very simple phenomenon. Then what makes us perceive relationships as draining experiences? Well, that is because of lack of understanding and love. But does true love exist? Or is it just in the movies?
Does
Unconditional
Love
Exist?
In
fact,
love
is
above
all
conditions.
When
there
are
conditions,
it
isn't
love.
So,
by
its
very
nature,
love
is
supposed
to
be
unconditional.
Can
We
Expect
Unconditional
Love
In
Relationships?
Well,
no.
Expecting
your
partner
to
keep
the
heart
open
all
the
time
isn't
realistic.
In
fact,
it
is
quite
natural
for
any
of
us
to
lose
the
ability
to
love
unconditionally
at
least
in
certain
situations.
As human beings, we cannot consistently show unconditional love towards our own selves all the time. So, how can we show unconditional love towards fellow human beings all the time?
Does
That
Matter?
It
doesn't
matter.
In
relationships,
the
objective
is
to
try
to
love
as
much
as
possible
without
expecting
to
be
loved.
So,
we
can
always
keep
trying
to
offer
unconditional
love
to
our
partners
in
spite
of
occasional
failures.
What
Happens
In
Relationships?
As
human
beings,
we
tend
to
have
various
'aspects
of
personality'.
Some
of
them
are
pleasant
to
others
and
some
of
them
aren't.
When
a
person
is
in
love
with
you,
he
or
she
likes
the
good
side
of
your
personalty
and
can
tolerate
the
bad
side
of
your
personalty.
That
is
what
acceptance
is
about.
Then
What
Spoils
Relationships
Expecting
others
to
love
even
the
bad
aspects
of
your
personality
in
the
name
of
unconditional
love
isn't
realistic.
Your
loved
one
can
tolerate
the
bad
side
of
your
personality
but
it
doesn't
mean
he
or
she
is
in
love
with
those
areas
too.
What
Happens
With
Expectations?
Firstly,
you
tend
to
feel
hurt.
You
fail
to
digest
the
fact
that
your
partner
need
not
love
your
bad
side.
Simply
accepting
your
bad
side
or
tolerating
it
is
enough
for
the
relationship
to
thrive.
With hurt comes control into the picture. You will feel like controlling that person to love you. At that point the beauty of the relationship will be gone forever.
With hurt and failure to control the other person comes low self-esteem. It always makes you feel that you aren't being loved enough for what you are. In fact, that is another form of not being able to love yourself unconditionally.
After all those stages are over, ego is another aspect that can spoil even unconditional love. When a breakup occurs, the person who takes the first step to patch it up is the winner. But soon after a fight, your ego makes you think that the other person has to patch up.
Your ego tells you that you are greater than anybody. So, you cut all communication as if your loved one is your enemy. When you lose the capability of unconditional love, expecting your partner to love you unconditionally is foolish, right?
So, does unconditional love exist? The answer is both yes and no! Yes- if you have the capacity to love yourself and everyone all the time. No- if you fail to love yourself and others.
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