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How To Stop Siblings Quarrel With Each Other
They try several techniques like punishing them, scolding them, literally pulling them apart etc to stop these fights, but if the end result, of these hard trials would go in vain then the parents end up hurt.
Every parent dreams of a harmonious relationship among their kids. They put their soul and heart to achieve it. Although they try so much to stop these fights, have they ever thought of trying positive things to assist their children, get along well with each other? Of course siblings love each other, but at times they start with petty fights and land in a big one that would worry any parent.
Hence, the concentration of any parent in order to stop their kids from quarreling with each other should be, in aiding them with different techniques to get along better with each other.
Laurie Kramer, a University of Illinois professor of applied family studies, says, "Even if you're successful at reducing conflict and antagonism, research suggests that you'll probably be left with little positive interaction between siblings.Do you really want your kids to head for their rooms and spend time mainly on their own interests and with their own friends?"
She
sates
that
parents
should
fore-see
their
kid's
relationship
with
his
or
her
sibling,
both
in
the
present
and
in
the
future.
They
should
not
be
fighting
with
their
siblings
life
long,
hence
what
the
parents
nurture
their
kids
with,
in
the
child
hood
days
play
a
vital
role
in
shaping,
their
love,
care
and
support
for
their
sibling
in
future
too,
in
short
when
they
are
in
their
adult
hood.
Rather than pulling them apart or asking them not to talk to each other, try things like arranging family games, outing, making them work together to achieve something etc. Karmer said, "Most parents would like for their kids to be able to talk with each other, have fun together, and be a source of support for each other during stressful times in their lives."
She suggested that by following some simple ways parents can help their children grow better in harmony.
Empathy
:
Teach
your
children
how
to
be
empathetic.
How
to
think
from
their
siblings' point
of
view
and
act.
Controlling
Emotions
:
Help
them
by
providing
guidelines
to
control
their
emotions
and
behave
in
a
composed
manner
when
they
are
frustrated.
Un – Biased : Guide them in a way not to interpret or never assume things the way they want. Teach them to not interpret others actions and act with predictions in their head. Tell them that assume means, 'Ass Of Me And U'.
Solution
:
Tell
them
that
any
problem
can
be
solved.
Teach
them
how
well
he
or
she
can
find
solutions
to
their
fights
with
little
time
and
patience.
Hence
tell
them
not
to
waste
time
in
fighting
rather
sit
down
and
seek
solutions.
Impartial
:
Favouritism
towards
one
child
can
create
conflict
among
children.
Hence
never
be
partial
to
your
kids,
always
fulfill
their
needs
without
showing
partiality.
Strengthen
The
Bond
:
Teach
your
children
how
ones
strength
can
be
used
to
polish
their
sibling's
weakness.
Hence
show
them
how
to
co
–
operate
and
act,
rather
trying
to
take
advantage
of
the
weakness.
Mutual Fun : Arrange mutual fun sessions, conversations, games etc to strengthen their bond.
Praise : 'Praise' being a parent you should never forget this word. Praise your kids when they help each other or when they do something for their sibling. Constant praise on their good deeds can boost their spirits and bond.
Kramer said, "If you love the idea of your kids just having fun together, schedule more family activities and help to make that happen. If you do have big problems with fighting among your kids, help them learn and practice strategies for solving problems and managing conflicts."
"Problems have solutions, and there's a logical process that you go through to achieve consensus. Make sure both siblings understand what the fight is about, have them practice telling their own viewpoint and taking the other person's perspective, then help them to brainstorm different ways of solving the problem that have a win-win solution. If the solution doesn't work, well, you try again," she adds.
Hence rather stopping their fights using your muscle power, try your mind power to over power your kids' conflicts.
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