Lost Romance In Marriage? Bring Back Now!

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Amrisha

By Amrisha Sharma

Friday, January 6, 2012, 11:54

Few years after marriage, you start feeling bored or the monotony can make you take the lovely marriage as a burden! Why marriage becomes a burden? Why you lose romance few years after marriage? Where did the passion go? These are the most common questions which captures the minds of lately married couples. According to many couples, habit makes them stay together after few years of marriage. It is very important to bring back the lost romance back to your marriage and spice up love again.

How to bring back lost romance in marriage?

Bring back interest: Remember how small talks and silly issues made you two laugh? Think about those memories and revive them again. For eg, when your partner tells you about his/her day at office/home, pay attention. Use your wit and humour and make the partner come and share with you again with interest.

Gift: To spice up lost romance in marriage, you have to present surprise gifts to your spouse. In this context, both women and men can be impressed with gifts. By this time you must be knowing the likes and dislikes of your partner. Keep that in mind and get a surprise gift for your partner.

Increase intimacy: Often couples complain that they lose interest in lovemaking few years after their marriage. Break the monotony. Give a foot massage to your wife before going to sleep, plan a candle light dinner with your husband or cook his favourite dish together. Wives can give a relaxing head massage to refresh his mind and increase intimacy gradually. Try new lingeries and attract him towards you sensually to bring back romance in your life.

Spend time together: You can either plan a small weekend together or go for shopping on weekends. It is good to spend time with each other and recollect good memories. The more time you enjoy being with each other, the more you improve your marriage and spice up romance.

Remember important dates: Never take your spouse for granted. It is good if you remember the important dates and days. For eg, marriage anniversary, birthdays are must. If you are good in remembering dates, also keep a track of the days when you first met etc.. Many couples forget these days past 5-7 years after marriage therefore disappointing their wives.

Try these ways to bring back romance in your marriage and spice up love as a young and newly married couple!