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When do you want a baby in your life?

By Staff
When To Have A Baby?

Babies, of course, are the most valuable gift to human beings. It is through them the world look towards future. Every couple wishes to have babies as soon as possible after the marriage. If you're feeling down, lonely or unloved, it's easy to think a baby will be the solution to all these. The innocent face of a baby and their cute smile will make feel like in heaven. Do you think it is highly important to plan the birth of your baby? Yes… it is crucial and essential for anyone think and decide upon when to have a baby. Always be aware that having a baby is the greatest challenge one can face ever.

When planning to have a baby sometimes we get so caught up in the excitement of finally having a baby that we forget about the things we need to have in place so we are ready when our precious little one arrives. It's important to take some time to think about how having a baby is going to effect your family's bottom line. It is the emotional preparations that are crucial to healthy babies and family development and often it is these preparations that are ignored by expectant parents.

A baby should be born into an atmosphere where he/she will be provided with great comfort, care and love. If you can provide all these then no need of hesitating to invite your baby among you. But if you are going through any sort of tensions and pressure like financial troubles, emotional instability etc, then always prefer to postpone the birth of your child. You need to feel stable and fulfilled if you're going to provide a baby with a loving home. Don't be tempted to go for it as a means of filling an emotional hole.

It is important to be prepared to be a parent before you think of your babies. Immature parents could help only to create an unhealthy atmosphere to babies. There are different opinions about the age limit of parents to have children. But the most advisable is to have kids before you cross you 40s. Otherwise the generation gap between parents and children may dig a gulf between you. Experts believe that the most fitting living for babies is in a family. Having children outside marriage may cause a feeling of insecurity in them. Once the married couple settle down, they can think about having a baby in the family.

Before having a baby, make sure that you are financially sound enough to care for a baby. Babies aren't cheap and even with careful budgeting it can be a stretch for some parents. With commitment and carefully planning, you will find a way to fund parenthood. It is suggestible that once you have time to care and love your baby you can think of a child. This is beneficial for the mental and physical health of a child.

Being a parent can be as rewarding as it is demanding, of course, but it's vital that you think beyond the super-cute bundle of joy that first springs to mind when you consider having a baby. Once you have a baby everything in your life changes. You will have to be prepared to bring up your child in the best possible atmosphere. Both the parents are to be in good health to think of a healthy baby. Never make a compromise of negligence in case of your kids. If you feel that you are sound enough to be perfect parents, then, get into action and welcome your newborn with multiplied magnitudes of pleasure.

Story first published: Friday, December 12, 2008, 9:47 [IST]