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10 Signs That You Haven't Moved On After Breakup

By Archana Mukherji

Breakup with a partner whom you have loved from your heart and soul is always very painful. People who do not get into such a situation should consider themselves very lucky because breakup is all about betrayal, pain, heart-break and sadness. If you are looking for signs that you have not moved on or confused if moved on, then read on to get a clarity.

Have we ever realised what causes such breakups? It is merely misunderstanding and lack of adjustment between each other. At times, bad character of a person might lead to a breakup. But if we consider most of the cases, breakups could always have been stopped, had the couple communicated their feelings in a better way.

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Once you breakup and do not want to see each other, you try to move on with your life separately. But if you speak to your inner heart, you actually did not want this to happen and are trying to hide your feelings. Look out for signs of moving on from relationship.

Some of your activities are the signs that you have not moved on from your relationship yet. It is understood that as compared to girls, a boy seems to show signs he has moved on from a relationship. But this is not true. Men have emotions too, but they portray emotions differently than women.

Discussed in this article are a few signs to prove that you have not really moved on after a breakup. If you have had a breakup and realise the signs that you have not moved on, nothing is too late, you can still cope-up with your partner, communicate, understand and live happily forever, together.

Facebook Status

Facebook Status

People usually have the habit of changing their Facebook status when they are depressed to indicate their unhappiness. So if you have changed your status in Facebook to indicate your breakup and pain, it is a clear sign that you have not moved on.

Abusing

Abusing

If you keep bad-mouthing about your ex-partner always, it is an indication that you still remember him/her and is one of the signs of not moving on after breakup.

Feeling Jealous

Feeling Jealous

Most of the unhappy people do not really want to be jealous, but situations make them so. After a break-up if you see your friend with her/his partner, you feel jealous that your life has become hell, whereas, they are happy. Also, if you are a girl and you see your ex-boyfriend with a new partner, it is a sign he has moved on, whereas you have not.

Overspend

Overspend

You tend to overspend, as always, forgetting the fact that at the end of the month, all those bills will be only yours.

Over-eat And Over-drink

Over-eat And Over-drink

Over eating and drinking are other signs that you have not moved on after a breakup.

Blaming

Blaming

You keep blaming everybody else for the broken relationship rather than taking the blame yourself.

Social Media

Social Media

You go on your ex's social media obsessively and keep checking on him/her.

Solitude

Solitude

You try to spend much time in solitude rather than speaking with people around, who care for you.

Dating

Dating

You try to date with a new boyfriend/girlfriend, though you might not be actually interested, but want to make your ex-partner feel jealous of you.

Going On A Trip

Going On A Trip

You plan for an immediate trip after the breakup, just to hide your feelings from others and this is a very good sign that you have not moved on.

Story first published: Friday, February 20, 2015, 17:56 [IST]
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