Never Say These Things In An Argument

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Relationships are fragile and all it takes for you to break your beautiful bonding with your partner is just one wrong word. We all do argue with partners, use swear words and sneer and say bad things. But at the end of the day if these words coming out of your mouth hit your partner too hard then it will be very difficult for you to take them back.

There is a faint line that one needs to draw when it comes to arguments in a relationship, in all honesty you cannot get so mad with the person whom you claim to love so dearly all of a sudden.

So, why are you so harsh? There are certain standards that one needs to draw, without which we cannot possibly hold on to any given relationship, let alone the relationship that is supposed to last forever. If you are always ending up in a fight with your partner then here are some tips for to draw the line.

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Saying “Whatever”
Now here is a word which is an all time anger fuelling word. It is beyond frustrating when your partner is to trying to say something to you in order to make sense, and you go, “ya, whatever”. The moment of clarity that your partner is trying to induce here is being destroyed by you without any inkling of sense. You are shunning all rational thought process by using this word and well it is just very wrong to use the word.

Swear Words
We love the swear words. We like to say things that are mean and bad so that the other person knows how angry we are, but this does not help. Swear words are the most important words to avoid when you are fighting. It shows bad taste on your part and hits your partner really hard. You throw a swear word and your partner throws one back and it goes back and forth. After it all cools down you will be a bundle of hopeless regret.

I am Done with This
Unless you really mean this, do not ever use it. It is simply devastating for your partner to hear this and you have no comebacks to fix things up later. The moment you say that you want a divorce or want a break up then that is it. No matter how much you love your partner, he or she would always remember that you wanted to call off. The truth is that this leaves a scar, a deep scar on your relationship.

You were a Mistake
Now even if you are fed up with your partner this is the worst thing that you can say, especially at the heat of the moment, because once again there is no come back for this anywhere. You just called the person whom you apparently love the most a “mistake”. How worse can things get? Your partner will be full of sorrow and will probably shed a million tears thinking that all this while it was just a mistake and the relationship doesn’t mean much to you.

Words are the worst type of weapon; you can never take them back. So be careful about your chosen words and argue with dignity and maintain standards.