Is She Considering A Breakup With You?

Being in a relationship is a beautiful experience. Relationship gives you that special feeling as you know you have someone to share your happiness and sorrows, someone to depend upon during those low times and someone who holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be ok.

But do you always find this special ‘someone’ so easily? Maybe, some do and some do not. Or you might feel that you have found your perfect partner but she may have other thoughts. The question that will start coming up time and again will be ‘Is she considering breaking up?’

The thoughts of having to go through a breakup can be quite heartbreaking. At the same time, you need to realise that if you are not going anywhere in the current relationship, it would be no use dragging it on.

When the first bell rings and your heart questions you ‘Does she want to break up?’, try to get all facts cleared. Living in doubt can be quite stressful, both physically and mentally.

TYPES OF WOMEN MEN SHOULD AVOID

Slight behavioural changes can always take place with all of us. Change is the only constant thing in life and hence, not every change should sound like an alarm bell. But, yes, if you find these changes unreasonable, try to understand their meaning.

Signs of a breakup in a relationship:

Ignoring: When you love someone, you would want to be with that person as much as possible. This closeness can be physical or mental. The mere thought of being with your beloved will light up your day. But if you find your girlfriend to be ignoring you and your presence, it is time for you to sit up and make note. What could be the reason? Does she want to break up?

Avoiding: Your girlfriend may be considering a breakup and hence, she starts avoiding you, your calls and anything concerned with you. These are subtle signs she will be sending out to you to drive her feelings home. In this process, she not only avoids contact with you but also steers clear of your relatives and friends.

Cold shoulder: Celebrating an achievement or happy moment can be done with all friends. When it comes to sharing sorrows, it is only those special friends who can be relied upon, those friends who can lend a shoulder to cry on. If you have a girlfriend, she will be one of the first people you will turn to for sympathy and consoling. But if this girlfriend gives you a cold shoulder, you should reconsider the future of your relationship. Ask yourself ‘Is she considering a break up?’

Secretive: We all share our secrets with the people we love and rely upon the most. In a happy and healthy relationship, both partners share their little secrets with one another. However, if you happen to notice that your girlfriend starts keeping things from you, there may be a problem. Try to understand her and her feelings. It could be because she is no longer interested in continuing with the relationship.

No future talk: When two people love each other they want to spend their lives together. In order to do so, they often make plans for the future and consider what life will be for them as one unit. If there is trouble in a relationship, this future talk will take a step back. There will hardly be any mention of future plans and that should give you some signs of a breakup coming your way.

In many cases, reading the body language and thoughts of a girl are not difficult, especially if you have been with her for some time. Try to interpret her little signs and prepare yourself for a situation where breakup might be the impending. Being prepared often helps overcome the unwanted change.