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10 Tips For Understanding Women

By Madhu Babu

Understanding a woman is one of the toughest things out there to do. No matter how long you have been in a relation, you would still find it a mystery to completely understand them. It probably takes a lifetime to know the woman you love to make any judgement. There are several ways to understand a woman to a large extent to strengthen your relationship.

To start understanding the woman you love, you have to start by communicating more. It is always a give and take, hence you have to be honest and straight forward with your woman to get her out of the shell and be open with you. You have to show her your love and commitment so that she can trust you and let you explore her better.

No matter how hard you try or how well you have tried, it is important to be patient. Things won't happen overnight or over a year. Don't be surprised if you unravel something new about your woman a decade after you first met her! It is important to be kind, affectionate and understanding. You need to approach your woman with an open mind so that you don't give a knee-jerk reaction to something and put her off into a shell.

Patience

Patience

It takes time to understand your woman. Patience is essence for getting to know your woman better. Do not expect to understand her in days or months. Plant the seed and wait for the flower.

Love

Love

You have to approach your woman with love to understand her better. Any woman would open up her feelings only to the most loved companion. She would let her guard down and let you explore when you approach with love.

Affection and care

Affection and care

Like approaching with love you don't expect woman to open up to a jerk. She would start sharing her feelings and emotions to men who treat her with affection and care.

Communication

Communication

Women love to talk. To understand a woman, you have to start communicating well. It is the key to understanding any woman. You would get to know her to make better judgement about her while communicating openly.

First move

First move

To understand a woman, you have to make the first move. Approach her with openness and honesty. By making the first move to share, you can expect her to open up to you to let you understand her as much as she would understand you.

Different

Different

You have to accept that all women are different in many ways. Some may be open and frank while some can be shy and make you work a little harder to get through her shell. You must never compare them and wish your task of understanding them easier.

Ask question

Ask question

Women generally like to talk. Give them a reason to talk by asking questions. This way she gets to talk and you get to understand her by asking the right questions.

Her past

Her past

There are reasons why some women don't get along too well to certain situations or some women don't share too much. Know her past to know her better. She is what she is because of her past.

Spend together time

Spend together time

Arrange for regular outings and ‘together' times with her. More time you spend in each other's company the more intimate you get and hence you get to understand each other better.

Commitment

Commitment

Be committed in the relationship with your woman. Women generally are more sharing and revealing when they know they are in a committed relation. You would understand her better when you assure her you are there for her.

Story first published: Sunday, November 17, 2013, 13:44 [IST]
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