Questions To Test Relationship Compatibility

Are you in a serious relationship with someone you are planning to spend the rest of your life with? If so, then it is time to test your compatibility with your partner. If you and your partner are on the same lines in the relationship, you are with the right person to spend your remaining life. Experts say that a relationship is all about compatibility. Yes, we all know that opposites attract, but too many opposites and no similarities will not really help a relationship succeed.

When you have small differences between each other it surely is a cute thing, but if your differences are too severe, how will you spend your life together? It is said that when you have differences in a relationship, your approach to life or your ethics about relationship changes with your partner. This is not good for the romance you two share with each other.

How To Test Relationship Compatibility

These questions given below will help both of you test your compatibilities, and thus understand each other better. When you test your compatibilities with your partner, make sure to have an open mind. You should also remember that the answers given by each partner should be truthful in every way possible. By the end of it all, you will see that you know more about each other and would also be able to understand each others' approach to life.

Here are some of the compatibility questions you might want to test out in your relationship.

When it comes to trust,

  • What could I do in the future which will make you mistrust me?
  • Do you trust me with money related issues?
  • Is it permissible for us to open each others' mail?
  • Is trust automatic until something occurs which takes it away, or does it evolve over time?

When it comes to the past,

  • Have you ever been able to overcome a bad habit? If yes, what was it?
  • Have you ever been violent with your partner or otherwise in your past relationships?
  • What did you dislike the most about your previous partner?
  • Which childhood experiences influence your behavior and attitude?
  • Could any feelings of affection and romance be revived if you met a previous partner, even if you feel strongly committed to me?

When it comes to romance,

  • If I put on weight, will it affect our love life?
  • What do I do which will cause you to question my love?
  • How would our relationship be affected if for medical reasons we could not have children in the future?
  • Do you think being in love means: Never having to say that you are sorry?
  • What is the best way for me to show you that I love you?

When it comes to communication,

  • If you say you are going to do something but never do it, what is the most effective solution to bring this problem to your attention?
  • What is the best way for me to communicate my difficult feelings about you so that you will not get offended?
  • What do you admire from the way your parents treat each other?

Other questions to test your compatibility with your partner in a relationship could be

  • When you are in a bad mood, how should I deal with it?
  • Do you harbour any racial prejudice or any such related racial injustice?
  • How would you rank all the priorities in your life:- work, family, spouse, friends, hobbies?
  • What influence do you think our family would have on our relationship?
  • What health problems do you have?

These are some of the questions which can be used to test your compatibilities with your partner in a relationship.

Story first published: Wednesday, July 31, 2013, 17:40 [IST]
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