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Tips For Girls To Start A Conversation

Getting attracted to a boy who you meet in a gym or guitar class or probably anywhere you go, is one of the experiences that almost all of us have encountered. Catching a boy's attention is very easy for any girl. But to start a conversation with a guy you like and that too without making the conversation obvious is much more difficult.
Many times, girls don't know how to start a conversation or what to say to a guy. The same guy may not have noticed you yet or he may be just too shy to approach you. So confused about what to do and how to start a conversation with him? Do not fret, we bring you 5 ways to start a conversation with a guy you like.

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5 tips to start a conversation

1. Have we met before: You may find this very stereotypical but trust us, this is one good way to start a conversation with a guy you like. To try this, give a look to the guy with a hint that you are trying to recognise him. Walk confidently to him and say to him, "Hi, have we met somewhere before?" whatever his answer may be but this way you will definitely start a conversation.
2. Can you help me: Make a guy feel important and he will feel lucky when you ask help from him. You just need to plan this ahead. As a guy approaches you, ask him to help you in anything you are doing. If you have a heavy bag with you or if you are working on internet, show him as if network failed or look confused when you're in a new place like office or cafe. Just remember guys love to help girls. So, when he helps you thank him with your sweetest smile and he will start the conversation for sure.
3. Can I sit here: This is one of the most common ways that many girls follow. Be it in a bus, train or airport, ask the guy 'will it be fine if I sit here?' But make sure that while asking this question you flash your warmest smile. Your smile will signal him that you are warm and approachable. This will get you good results.
4. Leave your stuff near him: This will start a conversation without giving a clue to the guy that you are interested. As you pass near him, drop some stuff of yours like pen, notebook, keys or just anything and when he will bend down to pick your stuff. Thanks him for his kind assistance with a smile. Even if it didn't strike a conversation right then but it will give you a reason to talk to him next time you see him.
5. Say it straight: After you have exchanged glances, take the initiative and go smartly to the guy to start a conversation. Many guys appreciate girls who take initiative so there is nothing wrong in hitting the first step. But when you make this move keep in mind to limit your conversation to general. Don't ask or say anything that a guy may find embarrassing, intimidating or uncomfortable.
So try these tips and start your conversation with a guy who has swooned you.

Story first published: Friday, December 7, 2012, 18:59 [IST]
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