There Is No Love At First Sight!!!

Love And Romance

oi-Staff

By Staff

Friday, June 26, 2009, 16:43

Do you think that you can meet your sweetheart with a random eye contact? Do you think that he/she is "the one" when you travel in bus or at a coffee shop? Please stop! You must be jumping into an unhappy relationship or failed marriage.

The myth of love at first sight is not only untrue but is to blame for many unhappy relationships and failed marriage. It's 'mindless' to think that sometimes the first encounter is enough to fall in love with someone. A relationship should not be started until you really know someone.

There's certainly such thing as attraction at first sight, and in retrospect you (may) have been right that this was the person. However those chemical surges often betray those who plunge into it. Then we may be pulling into the worst mistake in one's life.

Society and advertising portray a certain look as being "beautiful." This can mislead us and confuse our ability to make decisions about potential partners. True, all of us cannot find partners who are physically good looking.

People automatically drawn to (those deemed beautiful) on an almost instinctual basis. However many good-looking people may not have those inner qualities that make for satisfying marriage. This is why it's so important to know somebody.

Psychiatrist and relationship expert Gordon Livingston conducted this study!