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The waves delicately touched her legs with a musical note, as she watched the sunset. When the cool breeze kissed her cheek, she smiled gently, may be thanking the west wind for that silent admiration. I calculate and imagine my whole life with this incarnated beauty. I declare she will be my sweetheart for life. Half a year rolls by and I see my sweetheart in some other's arm. I felt like the ground beneath my feet has just moved and I have been thrown into a dark cave.

Now I see Carol (my classmate) on the swing with a chirping voice of giggles as she swifts back and forth. A happy taught strikes my mind again and I repeat the same sentence, she will be my sweetheart for life."

This kind of love between young people during adolescence is called puppy love. Teenage girls and boys in love always have a riddle to solve. Do they are in love or is it just an infatuation? Here are some guidelines to solve the problem.

About crushes or infatuation
Uncertainties, overpowering lust, panic, excitement, impatience or jealousy are some of the symptoms of infatuation. Surprisingly some of the feelings during infatuation are the same when you are in love. It might be towards the girl next door, your classmate, best friend, your senior, friend's brother or sister, a teacher, a celebrity, or sister or brothers friends. However at the same time he/she may not be happy with the lingering suspicions and nagging doubts. Some teenagers in infatuation might make their partners uncomfortable by calling them on the phone, doing some funny or nasty tricks to get the attention. On the other hand, the shy lovers may just peep through the window to get a glance or may act like a secret Santa who unnoticeably keeps helping when the partner is in trouble. The recent psychological research depicts that most of these infatuations are bound by sexual intimacy and it ends after a sexual encounter.

About True love
love is an agreement written by lovers on non-degradable objects and states that they will be together forever. There will not have any space for jealousy as they move on together. People in love; whisper their most treasured secrets to each other. True lovers mature in age and experience love as a dynamic process that changes or grows simultaneously. They enjoy each other's company, and depend on each other in the deepest crisis over the years. The dreams are built on the same platform and met in the same destination. It brings out the best of an individual thus helping the relationship to flourish to greater heights.

The difference
If you are already in a relationship ask yourself the following question to decide whether yours is a true love

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• Are you happy?
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• Do you agree calmly during disputes?
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• Do you share the same ideas and feelings?
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• Does this relationship help you bring out the best in both of you?
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• Do you respect the other person's thoughts and expressions in life?
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• Is your life better or moving in the smooth track because of your love?
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If the answer is yes to all the questions then you are in love. Simultaneously try to figure out whether you or your partner is attracted physically. Get over the feeling in time and get emotionally bold to let alone heartbreaks after a while.

However remember that crush or teenage infatuation is the first step for developing normal healthy relationship in future. So, don't get scared or disappointed for falling in love. Who knows! She/he may truly become your sweetheart for life.