Love in the 21st century

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The youth and the teenagers are heading towards a whole new world made of superficial matters. There is lack of true love and affection in this whole new world. Our parents and grandparents also might have dated but they had a bonding between them, which made them move together. They were together happy and content. But now it is like looking for love in the wrong place. Nowhere can you hope to find true and loyal love for yourself. You are also not ready to offer true love to the person you pretend or think you love. So the only thing that can be said is that the whole scenario has changed and has been transformed to one deception.

Earlier people were never exposed to such a huge world. But now because of the so called "globalisation" individuals have exposure to a whole new world of new and different things. As a result, they have new and innumerable options. This is not only in the case of the academics and career opportunities but also in the field of love. Now people can switch on their and get connected to the whole world and as a result they get the opportunity to talk to different people all over the world.

Times changed and with that the face of relationship between individuals have also got ameliorated. The key to all the relationship is "loyalty" and this has in a way disappeared from amongst the youths of the 21st century. The 21st century has brought with it a number of innovations and new things for betterment but life has become so fast that people have no time to look back. The youngsters of the 21st century are very ambitious and along with that they believe in the notion of "use and throw" and they are applying this to relationships.

The boys and the girls of the 21st century are dating and they are dating not one but many at the same time. This has become the trend of today. And they are quite happy doing it inspite of the fact that they are not being loyal to anyone. And whenever they want they quite feasibly get rid of the relationship telling that they are not comfortable with the relationship anymore. Nowadays a relationship between a boy and a girl leads them to be physical very quickly and they are quite comfortable with this.

It has been found quite common that in a relationship when one person wants to discontinue the other person might not want to. And this may lead to a feeling of guilt because of the things that have done in their relationship. They might become cynical and also can go to the extent of hurting themselves out of guilt and depression. Thus 21st century has brought a turning point in the field of love. "Commitment" is the word that does not exist for the youths of today. They are happy to be without commitment and they finally land up alone.

It is really difficult to find someone who can make you happy throughout your life. They are of the opinion that they will remain unmarried till the age of 50 if they do not get the right person, but never will destroy their life getting tied to the wrong person. But my question is that our parents and many people get married without even knowing each other and they live together for their whole life happily and bonded with a feeling of love and affection. They do not think so much about the future but they try their level best to adjust and maintain the love which is the only thing that can make their relationship survive. So even in this 21st century follow the 20th century rule and you might end up being happy with the person you are dating and in the long run with your spouse.