Get In Touch With Your Blissful Aloneness

Paramahamsa Nithyananda

oi-Priya Devi

By Priya Devi

Friday, April 30, 2010, 12:00

The big problem today is that most people don"t love themselves. Society never teaches that it is possible to love ourselves. Understand that unless you love yourself, you cannot possibly love another person. Only when you lose yourself to yourself can you lose yourself to others. We are taught that we can only love even ourselves if we have a reason. If we perform well, we love ourselves. If we fail, we hate ourselves. We apply the same logic to others. We love them only because of something, never without a cause or a reason.

When you don"t love yourself, you become cynical and negative towards life. When you were alone in your mother"s womb, you were completely loving and blissful. In the womb you experienced your loving self. That is why you will see that you assume the fetal posture whenever you lie down with insecurity. Blissful aloneness is your original nature.

Once you came into the world, society conditioned you to believe that you needed people and television to be loving and happy. It never nurtured your original quality. Your original quality is blissful aloneness. If you get back in touch with that, you will settle down and feel peaceful and relaxed within yourself.