Relationships are very hard to understand. They are like a dream, you think that sometimes you may have hard times in your relationship which may fade away just like when you open up your eyes in the morning after a bad dream.
However, it is time for you to understand that all relationships are not like a bad dream which you can just forget and continue with your life. These relationships can make you feel exhausted and drain you out like anything. You may lose your self-confidence and you may even stop believing in love anymore.
A healthy relationship means to have trust in each other, appreciate and care for each other no matter what the situation is. However, if you are not experiencing all these things for a long time, these are the signs that you should say goodbye to your partner.
If you don't want to end your relationship at its ugliest part, you must consider the following reasons on why it is time to say a goodbye to your partner at this very point of time.
Not Spending Time With Each Other
Earlier, you used to spend your weekends with your partner. You guys had a great time catching up movies, enjoying at the disco or dining together. However, now he likes to spend time with his friends or female colleagues more than with you. He has also started to make excuses for not going out with you, then it's high time that you should say a goodbye.
Every relationship has its ups and downs. All couples have fights and arguments on certain things. A loving relationship includes everything from jealousy to caring to silly fights. But, if you guys are fighting everywhere on petty issues, it might be an alarming sign that you should not ignore. When your fights start to spoil your beautiful vacations, it's time you should move on.
If you partner has the habit to complain about you everywhere, be it at night parties or even at his workplace, you should surely do something about it. If any of his friends or colleagues have told you about his complaining nature, he is just not meant for you. You can ignore these things once or twice but if this is happening every time, you should say a final GOODBYE to him.
All the Effort is put only by “YOU”
In any relationship, a strong foundation can be built only if both the partners are willing to put their effort. If it is only you who is putting all the effort to keep the relationship going, you are definitely going to feel resentful at some point in your life, it may be sooner or later. So, you must understand that if the effort is only one sided, the relationship is not going to be stable.
Lack Of Trust
If your partner is constantly keeping tabs on your e-mails, phone calls, messages and social media posts, it means there is no trust in your relationship. Love means trusting each other. If he/she doesn't trust you, how can he/she love you? Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship, if trust is gone, everything is gone.
Lack Of Appreciation
He used to appreciate you earlier, whether it was about you wearing a pretty attire, your cooking skills, your new venture or a promotion in your career. He used to be so appreciative earlier, his words used to be an encouragement for you. Appreciating your partner means showing that you love him or her. Lack of appreciation means your partner doesn't support you anymore, which can be a draining experience for you. This is a big sign or reason for you to MOVE ON!