10 Secrets Of Marriage No One Tells You

Wednesday, June 24, 2015, 11:46 [IST]

Marriage is a gamble in life. Even couples who have found the perfect partner will agree! When a couple gets married, the first thing they receive from the in-laws and elders is marriage advice. The advice is usually uncanny and seems abnormal, but when you actually think of it the elders are right.

Most couples get marriage advice like: don't be a hen picker, don't allow her to work post marriage, don't allow him to stay out too long etc. More than marriage advice for couples, these are actually hidden secrets of a marriage no one will share with you.

WHY INDIAN WOMEN ARE SCARED OF MARRIAGE?

Close friends who are in the web are generally the ones who spill out a lot of secrets of their married life. If you aren't that lucky, then we give you a couple of hidden secrets of marriage, you might look forward to once wed.

FYI: For those who are already married and are facing these problems, relax it is normal.

Marriage Doesn't Complete You

Do you really think marriage fills that void in your life? No, it really doesn't. Marriage only provides you with companionship and support, with love and care.

It is Really 1+1=1

Yes, marriage turns two people to one even if it is an arranged marriage. It bonds two people to one but you still shouldn't make the mistake of winding your lives around each other.

Attractiveness

When married, you get to see your partner's face every single day. This at times becomes boring for some couples and therefore, the attractiveness diminishes in the relationship. The key to ignite the spark is to find new ways to surprise and love each other, each day, anew.

Love Ends

For newly weds, every day seems like an adventure. For couples who have been together for ages in a marriage, realise at some point the infatuation just ends. This is one of the secrets of married life that no one tells you.

Hatred Will Overcome

Another secret of married couples is that though we don't mean hatred literally, at some point of time in the marriage, you will question yourself "why I got married to him or her". This kind of hatred or doubt is normal in every marriage.

Treating Your Partner Right

Honestly, if you want the romance to last in your marriage, treat your partner the way you wish to be treated. This way, your partner will give you what you wish for naturally.

There Is No Happily Ever After

Marriage more accurately is a constant work in progress which is why happily ever afters only exist in fairy tales and not in real life.

Do Children Save Marriage

So, if you have recived the golden advice "have a kid and save your marriage" don't bother, because it won't really help.

You Might Get Disappointed Sometimes

One of the common secrets of marriage is that you will get disappointed sometimes. So when you do, don't lose your temper with your partner, resolve it in the best way possible.