Questions Men Ask Before Marriage

Marriage And Beyond

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By Amrisha Sharma

Friday, June 1, 2012, 16:55

So, you are planning to get married. Either under parental pressure or your own will, you have finally decided to tie the knot! But you have to be very sure if you are ready to spend the rest of your life with your partner. It is a big step that requires some patience and lots of confidence. In many Bollywood movies, you might have seen the girl coming in a saree with her head down when meeting a boy for marriage purpose. Believe it or not, most of the girls are scared as the questionnaire captures their mind. The question round is just an initiative to know each other at the first meeting. If you are all set to meet your partner of life, know these few questions that men always ask before saying “I Do”.

Can you cook? This is one of the most common questions men ask. Men are true foodie and eating outside food everyday is not their cup of tea. Especially after marriage, men do not wish to spend money dining at restaurants every other day. Moreover, well cooked food impresses a man easily.

Will you stay with my parents? Well, this is little complicated. A known fact is, women wish to stay with their husbands alone in a separate house. Complications with in laws (mother-in-law) spoils the marriage life of couples. This is a common case, this is why, most of the men ask this question before marriage. To make sure the woman is adjustable with her new parents (in-laws), a man is concerned to get a positive answer to this question.

Are you career oriented? In this genre, men want to have wives who are not dependent on them. A well educated working woman can easily make a man say yes! 80 per cent of men in urban areas ask this question before marriage. Do not take it negatively. It is just a trick to know if you are going to do your bit if he goes through a financial crisis.

Adjustable with my salary? All men are greedy. Even after earning a pocketful, a man always has the greed to earn more. However, the twist is, they are more conscious about their savings or just underestimate themselves. “I earn a meager amount. Can you adjust in this?” This is a question men ask before they commit for marriage to ensure that you two can live happily in his salary.

Are you flexible to changes? To have a happy married life, many men ask this question before tying the knot. A flexible woman is adjustable to changes in life; both mentally and physically. This question is based on the man's personal likes so, it cannot be applied to the gender as a whole!

These are few common questions men ask before deciding to tie the knot. Have you attended any such questionnaire? Share your questions with us!