The Life Of The Widower

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Staff

By Super

Thursday, April 19, 2012, 14:13

Solomon is 65 years old. His wife died of cancer few moths ago. Things were well when they were together for 40 long years. Today he is a puppet who hops from one house to another. Solomon was aware of the fact that his wife is not going to live for long and he will be a lonely traveler in his old age. To go with the sad saga they didn't even have a child nevertheless they never felt a need of adopting one. These days he is left alone most of the time to gaze at his beloved's picture or at the empty floor.

Death is a part of life and a harsh truth. Life cannot end because the partner is missing. So move on. Look around and see 'life is calling you'.

Here are some suggestions to lead a beautiful life ahead. Read on for the better.

Let Go

Let go. Sounds rude? Widower often feels that letting go is another word for betrayal. The betrayal of his sweet memories, his grief and his emotions. He feels irritated and cries when he knows that the people around him will be more comfortable if he would only forget his late wife and the history related to his happy married life.

Though the word is insolent, it has to be carried out, as it is the only way to move on. Let go those emotions that grieve your heart. Try engaging yourself with other activities. Go out with your friends. Remember, those days are the past and the past never returns. Accept the harsh fact although hard to believe and proceed.

Live with memories but with a smile

Most of the widowers do not let go easily, but they still lead a happy life. They live with the memories and thank almighty for all those blessed days. These widowers are the one's who hope that they will meet their loved ones one day. They hope to reunite eternally and anticipate for the great day. It may seem spiritual, but the men who believe in it lead a contented and unbeaten life.

So, believe in a supernatural power that holds your life. Leave it to Him and move on. For you still have hope. For you will still meet her some day.