How To Tell Your Guy You Are Not Ready To Sleep With Him

Here are some tips to tell your boyfriend that you are not yet ready to sleep with him...

Thursday, February 2, 2017, 13:09 [IST]

Making love is exactly that; it is love in the making. Its a beautiful act that gives you an opportunity to thank a partner and express the intensity of your feelings.

All of us are different. Some of us can quickly get naked whereas some people may need time to get tuned to someone. In fact, it is an act that needs closeness between two people.

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The stages of love, romance and companionship must be handled first before you really get into the bed room thing. But what if your man tries to do that first to satisfy his cravings? Well, you can tell him that it is not the way you want it to go. Here are some tips to help you.

Tip #1

When he tries to come closer, move away. When he tries to touch you, simply move his hand away from your body with a smile. If your guy is a sensible man, he'll understand that you aren't yet comfortable with his touch yet.

Tip #2

During a conversation, if he tries to express his desire to sleep with you, gently tell him that you need more time to think about it. Ensure that he doesn't get dejected by your words. Tell him that you are interested but not yet ready.

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Tip #3

If you are okay with kissing, then simply kiss him on his forehead and tell him that you want more time to really feel free enough to get naked with him. He might surely understand your condition as you have kissed him to show some interest.

Tip #4

If you don't get a chance to tell him then use random situations to tell him the same. For example, if you are watching a romantic movie with him, just say "I wonder how that heroine is romancing the hero in such a short span of time. I would take a year to really be free with a guy". That sentence will send him the message that you aren't too fast in getting into the bedroom.

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Tip #5

When he tries to do sexting, ensure that you pause for a while and then reply saying that you are not yet comfortable receiving such texts as your mind isn't in the right frame.

Tip #6

Explain him about the importance of feeling close. Tell him that only when proximity between two people increases, lovemaking will be beautiful. Otherwise, it would just be a friction play that lasts for a few minutes. Tell him that your body first needs to get used to touch, hugs, kisses and cuddling and only then you may feel like taking it to the next level.