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10 Signs You're Dating A Loser

Are there any signs you're dating a loser? Of course, there are some. Before going into those points, realise that love is blind; but even sex can also make us blind. That is why we fail to realise our mistakes and end up dating losers. Before committing to someone, you must ask yourself: Am I dating a loser?

None of us would enjoy dating a loser. But at times, our feelings and emotions towards the person might cloud our minds. It would be very tough to stay in touch with reality in such a juncture. That is why you need tips when dating a loser. You must be aware of certain warning signs that tell you about the quality of the person you are seeing. Let us discuss about them.

Here are some signs you're dating a loser:

Did he forget his wallet again?

Did he forget his wallet again?

Some men deliberately forget their wallets whereas some frequently forget to get their monies with them. Either ways, it shows that they are not happy to part with their money. In other words, such men are not happy to spend for you. How can you imagine dating such a loser?

You need his help badly, but he is inaccessible

You need his help badly, but he is inaccessible

Why date a man who doesn't even show up when you need him the most? Your man is supposed to be your protector. If he fails to protect you, he is not a man at all. You are dating a loser! Never end up with a loser who fails to be on your side in your ups and downs.

He suspects you

He suspects you

When you move closely with other men in your office, he suspects your character. When you move closely with other women in your office, he thinks you are a bisexual. Bottom line: He suspects you at all costs. This is one of the important signs you're dating a loser. Kick him out of your life!

He is jobless

He is jobless

Losing a job due to certain unforeseen circumstances is a totally different scenario, while staying jobless for long tells about the character of the person. Men, who lack the drive, tend to stay idle and vegetate. This is one of the important signs you're dating a loser. Such men fail to feed you in the long run. Even if you love such a man, it is better to move on gradually without hurting him.

He doesn't respect women

He doesn't respect women

A man who doesn't respect women is no man at all. He might fail to respect you one fine day. It is better to show him the door before such a day comes.

He doesn't respect your family

He doesn't respect your family

If he insults your parents in front of you, can you take it? Well, then what are you waiting for? Take a quick decision and throw that loser out of your life.

He doesn't respect his own family

He doesn't respect his own family

A man who fails to respect his own family will fail to respect his own wife and children. It's not a great idea to share your life with him. Think again.

He spends all his time with his friends

He spends all his time with his friends

Does he enjoy having a nice time with his friends? Does he prefer partying with friends all the time? Aren't you bored of staying with such a man? Think twice before dating a man who doesn't know how to share his time equally between his friends, family and you.

He falls asleep soon after making out

He falls asleep soon after making out

You must ask yourself one question: Am I dating a loser? Don't laugh but losers do fall asleep soon after they make out. They want nothing else apart from their pleasure. Why date such losers?

He borrows money from you

He borrows money from you

If he frequently borrows money from you, what makes you still think that he can provide for you? Also, ask yourself whether he is taking advantage of you. How to know you're dating a loser? Well, when you are being exploited and being taken for a ride, would you call it a relationship? Wake up!

Story first published: Wednesday, December 3, 2014, 12:51 [IST]
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