Symptoms Of Mid-life Crisis

By Sowmiya Prasad

Are you between the age of 35 and 55? Do things around you leave you disinterested? Beware, this is a warning signal! Both men and women in this age undergo a series of change, and we term it mid-life crisis. This is supposedly the most emotionally uncomfortable period for both the sexes. For some it may well stop with adjusting their lifestyle to suit their emotional needs, whereas for some it can turn out to be the true crisis.

A few people of this age are seen to stray out of their marital commitment and seek attention of their friends at work or others of the opposite sex. If your husband/wife is going through a mid-life crisis it can turn out be one of the painful times of life. You might be wondering about the changes in your partner and may also be upset about his/her behavior towards you. Women in this age may be undergoing the worst time of menopause, whereas men may be undergoing signs of depression. In short, things can get quite difficult at this time. So what are the symptoms mid-life crisis shows in your husband/wife? Learn more about it and also stay prepared to make necessary amendments to your life, to overcome this.

Symptoms Of Mid-life Crisis

Ah, I am not interested!
This is one of the common symptoms mid-life crisis presents with. A feeling of disinterest creeps in and leaves you in distress. There are people who may quit their jobs and even try to go back to days of their school. They may also start questioning their own beliefs and decisions. If you see this in your partner understand he/she is undergoing a mid-life crisis.

Changing looks
Changing one's looks is also one of the symptoms mid-life crisis may bring in a person. A person who doesn't stay in tune with fashion and shopping spree is just an annual event, may suddenly turn a fashion freak. He/she may start spending hours in front of the mirror. Do you find this in your partner? If so, understand, he/she is going through mid-life crisis.

The feeling of Depression
People undergoing mid-life crisis may often tend to get the feeling of being depressed. Depression affects their mood and this leaves everything disordered. There are also chances that your relationships get badly affected during this time. Sadness, lack of energy, weight gain/loss, and sleeplessness is some of the symptoms of depression.

Abrupt impulsive decisions
Mid-life crisis may make people jump into abrupt decisions. They make life-changing decision which may make them regret later. They may even resign a job, opt for a divorce, sell the house they live etc.

Living in the hell
A person who lived with you for over 20 years and seemed all contented about life from outward may suddenly tell his/her partner that he/she had been "living in the hell" right from the start. Is it not the most painful thing that you can hear from your partner? This is what mid-life crisis brings into your life. So beware!

"Same old, Same old"
Your husband/wife, who is undergoing a mid-life crisis, may want this!! He/she may be bored of the "same old, same old" in the bedroom. This may leave him/her searching for a new emotional and romantic relationship. If you find your partner working for long hours or using the chat windows, take a note.

Indecisive about the future
One of the symptoms mid-life crisis may cause in people is indecisiveness. They may want to do something, but they can never be sure about their decision. They may end up in confusion as to whether stay in the relationship, or job.

Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or a qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

Story first published: Monday, November 18, 2013, 18:11 [IST]
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