10 Things Urban Women Want From Men

Wednesday, August 13, 2014, 15:46 [IST]

Today, women demand and command a lot from their men. In a relationship, everything should be equally shared, don't you agree? Urban women think differently though! The things urban women want from men will surely 'not' make a hole in their pocket. Things a woman wants from her man are not materialistic, but stuff such as no dowry and the privilege to be treated equally and fairly.

Though today men are educated and well-earning, some of them still believe in the idea of how much the girl's father can provide when she leaves her maternal home.

WHAT WOMEN WANT FROM A MARRIAGE?

These kind of issues prevalent in our society have made women firm about making it clear what they want before tying the knot.

One of the common things urban women want from their men is to welcome her career and allow her to pursue it post marriage as well. Women are not supposed to stay at home and be a caretaker, she should be independent and earn for herself. Also, the urban woman wants no compulsion on having kids.

Here are some of the things urban women want from their men. Take a look:

Forget About Dowry

Forget dowry if you want to marry an urban woman. Today, women resent the whole idea of the dowry system. It is all about how much two family can put together at the time of marriage.

Those Surprises

If you are dating a woman and surprises are your thing to make her smile a little, then don't stop it post marriage. Though the urban woman is independent and strong willed, she still believes in the idea of being pampered by her man. This is one of the things women want from men.

Not To forget – Gold!

Gold makes a woman complete, mentally and physically. On an average, all Indian women love to be gifted gold. So, if you are wondering what to give women in a relationship, you have your answer.

To Love Her Siblings

She wants you to accept and love her siblings just the way she does. It might sound difficult, but it isn't possible. This is one of the things women want from their men.

Dream Weddings

Dream weddings are a must and women wait for that day to look and feel beautiful. If the man cannot give their lady a dream wedding, there is no point in saying 'I do'.

Welcoming Her Career

The main thing urban women want from their men is for him to accept her career with an open mind. Telling her what to do and expecting her to do that is not the right attitude she expects from her man.

No Strict Rule On Kids

There is no hard and fast rule to have kids right after you tie the knot. Today, the urban woman wants her man to take it easy when married and not expect to have kids right away.

To Keep Ego Aside

Keeping ego aside is another thing urban women want from the relationship. Men who have a lot of ego, this is a heads-up!

Be A Part Of Chores

Don't expect your lady to do everything. You should be a part of doing some amount of chores. It is an essential thing urban women want from their man.