Are You Relationship Material?

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Have you ever felt that special attraction for anyone and then you have backed out at the time of commitment? If yes, then you need to question yourself whether you are ready to be in a relationship or not. Most people want a long term relationship while some don't. You need to find out which category you belong to.

Sometimes you may like a person very much. So much so that you kind of get addicted to them. But when the other person wants to go ahead with the relationship, you feel insecure or afraid of the fact that are you even ready for a lifetime commitment. You feel the pressure and you just want to escape from the scene as soon as possible. The fault is not the other person's. It is within you that the fault lies.

So, here is how we help you to know that you are a relationship material or not.

The way you were brought up: Many people fear commitment in a relationship because they have had a bad or disturbed past. Your upbringing has a great role to play in your commitment problems. If your parents don't get along well or there have been too many cases of separation in the family, then chances are that you have started believing that long term relationships don't work at all.

Do you believe in share and care: When you are in a serious relationship with someone, you need to be sharing as well as caring. You have to share your problems with the person you love. Unless you are ready to share and in reverse care for the other person, there is no point in starting a relationship at all.

Can you listen: It is a very important part in a relationship. You have to be a good listener if you want a relationship. If your partner starts believing that you are not listening to them, they may feel that you take them for granted and you don't respect the relationship.

Faithfulness: You really need to ask yourself whether you would be able to give your one hundred per cent to your relationship and the faithfulness to your partner which is obviously expected. If the answer is no, then you are definitely not a relationship material.

Your privacy: Do you feel threatened about your privacy when you are with your partner? Then it is a very serious sign that you are not ready for a relationship. In a relationship, you have to be open about yourself and your life to your partner. Keeping secrets is not a part of it.

So, how do you feel about these issues? By asking yourself these questions you can find out whether you are a relationship material or not. If not, then better be a loner and not involve a second person to get dependent on you emotionally.