What Should The Husband & Wife Talk About? (Part 1)

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Staff

By Super

Tuesday, April 3, 2012, 9:56

While talking to your husband you might discuss about various topics. The husband and wife talk could be related to children, gossip about workplace, or boss, or something that happened on the way back home. But ladies, beware of what you talk in front of your husband! Even, a slight mistake can lead to serious misunderstandings in your perfect husband-wife relationship.

Check out the following husband-wife talking tips and women, avoid these topics!

1.Do not speak about a female colleagues' or friend's personal relationship, i.e. avoid getting into intricate details. Also cut out all girlie talk when speaking about another female, specially dressing style etc. You do not want your husband to visualize about your friend in a skimpy dress.

2.During a husband-wife talk, never compare him with a male colleague, boss or somebody's husband. They might be better in many ways, but he too is trying to give you the best you can. Even comparison with your father or even his father may be misunderstood, so avoid it under all circumstances.

3.Do not appreciate your manager too much or comment about a male colleague who dresses very smartly to work. If you notice any sign that he is not very interested about knowing about people or what happened at your workplace, its best to avoid this topic whenever you speak to him.

4.Do not pass negative comments about his relatives or family, even if he himself does it. Just nod your head to his comments, but never add more negative comments. This is one of the main conversation topics to avoid.

5.If any of his siblings is going through a bad phase, do not try to intervene or give suggestions. Until he speaks about the problem himself, do not question him about it, even if you have heard about it through some other source.

6.If there is any controversy going on in his family, do not communicate about it with your parents or relatives. At least not in his presence!

7.If your husband is stressed about something at office or anything else, the best way to communicate with him is through silence. Listen to him carefully and give positive suggestions that will help him. Never speak about unrelated topics such as grocery shopping or what can be prepared for dinner etc.

8.Do not comment or criticize him too much about his habit of watching television or drinking too much coffee whenever he is at home. Remain silent, even if you are too frustrated. Sometimes, silence makes a big difference. He might notice and try to change his ways.

By being careful about what you include in your husband-wife talk, you can avoid many simple misunderstandings. A key to a healthy lasting relationship lies in adjusting and using a little common sense!