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Signs He Is Not Going To Marry You

By Pooja Kaushal

If you are in a relationship and recently started noticing changes in your partner’s behaviour, your mind may start racing. If the change is good, all is fine. But if the change is unexpected and uncalled for, then you better be careful. He could be giving signs he isn’t going to marry you.

Understanding your partner is necessary to notice the changes in him. If your relationship has been a long one, then there would hardly be any secrets between you two. In fact, both of you would have shed your masks long ago and would be able to read each other inside out. In such a situation, even a subtle change can be enough to set you off your guard.

Relationship tips do suggest empathy, understanding, compassion and dedication to your partner. At the same time, it is important to stay grounded and not get carried away. While you love your partner, you should also be aware of your own feelings and maintain self-respect. If you find the following changes creeping into your relationship, it would be best to get things clarified with your partner and then take the next step.

Evasive answers: Definite answers may start changing to indefinite ones. You may also realise that your partner resorts to evading your questions. There was once a time when things were definite in life with no confusion and complication. Now, with your partner trying to evade your questions, a gap is being created between the two of you.

Avoid meetings: When you love someone, you try to create situations to meet up. You need not even have a reason to meet. However, when you find your partner trying to avoid meeting you or constantly trying to squeeze out of situations where you might come together, those are signs he isn’t going to marry you.

No more family gatherings: When you decide to marry, you make an effort to know your partner’s family and friends. You would also want your family to get acquainted with your boyfriend. But if your partner tries to slip away from your family gatherings or does not invite you over to meet his folks, then take it as a hint. He sure does not want you in his family. It implies he does not intend to marry you.

Work load increases: There is always time for the person you love. It could just be a small meeting, catching up before work or grabbing a bite together after work. But if someone wants to avoid you and does not intend to take the relationship any further, then those little sweet times vanish. Suddenly, work load increases so much that there would not be time for you. If you find yourself in the same situation, then it is time you realised where your relationship is going.

Reduced phone calls: It might not be that your partner calls you up every two hours or expects a call from you throughout the day. But when the calls go down, you can figure it out. It could even be possible that calls take a very formal turn and your partner hardly ever wants to talk to you when you call.

No future plans: If you want to spend your life with someone, then you will talk about your future plans. But if your partner refrains from such plans or avoids seeing a future with you, then be prepared. He is showing signs he isn't going to marry you.

Signs He Is Not Going To Marry You

Relationships are based on trust and confidence. You can go ahead with one when you are sure that both of you are prepared to spend a lifetime together. But the slightest of doubt can wreck a beautiful relationship. If you happen to notice signs he isn't going to marry you, then talk it out with him. There could be something else bothering him which is affecting your relationship. And if he really wants to move away, then do so with grace.

Story first published: Friday, November 21, 2014, 17:20 [IST]