Get Integrated To Exude Love

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Swamiji, I want to be loving but I am unable to let go...

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To be totally loving, is a big challenge for the ego. To be totally loving, is to merge oneself with the Whole. This is great trouble for the ego. You are right now fragmented; you are not integrated. When you are fragmented, you simply play with your different fragments and escape, that's all. To be loving means, you need to become integrated. You are scared to become integrated. When you become integrated, you grow as a whole.

But to become integrated, you need to die and be reborn. You are so used to being fragmented that you feel threatened when you have to integrate yourself. Your ego refuses to allow it to happen. When you become loving, you are melting your ego. Earlier your ego was hard; it was solid and you felt good. What will happen when your ego melts? You will feel like you are losing your whole identity.

If you just decide to let go at least once, you will feel such a tremendous freedom, such liberation inside yourself. You need courage to let go and become loving. As a first step, at least become aware of this deep inside; it will then automatically happen. Awareness is the key to open any lock.

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