Chanakya Niti: Virtues To Cultivate For A Happy Marital And Material LIfe

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Chanakya Niti is of immeasurable value to those in need of self-help books. Be it marital, spiritual or material, Chanakya has an advice for every situation that saves the person involved. Everyone in today's times still read it for guidance and this is a proof for its credibility since time immemorial.

Happiness and progress can happen in a couple's life only when they have associated virtues that augur well for marital and social life. A man can hope to be successful in all his undertaken tasks only if his marital and social life are going on an even keel. A wife supposedly having three specific virtues and a man possessing five personality attributes, are bound to succeed in the areas of marital and material life. These virtues are a must have necessary traits that should be developed in order to enjoy a happy life in this world.

Religiosity, sweet speech and economy are the three qualities a woman must possess in order to uplift a family to prosperity and affluence.

1. Firstly, religiosity plays a very important role in shaping the fortunes of a household. The lady of the house worships God and holds nature and religion in deep reverence. Worshipping religion gives her a sense of balance in everything and removes any existent stress out of her. Worshipping God and respecting nature. Also they have a sharp conscience that helps them discern between what is bad and what is good. They have the principle of punya and papa that govern their every action. The head of the family can take good decisions about everything, taking her advice.
2. Soft spoken women do not have enemies first of all. They spread happiness wherever they go. They can very well adjust to people and situations. A man is really lucky if his wife is soft spoken and he gets praised everywhere for selecting her as his wife. So soft spoken women have an edge over others there.
3. Economizing trait is a very much wanted trait in a woman. By constantly saving money, which comes of need during times of trouble, she can revive the financial scenario when the husband is in trouble and bring in a sense of stability that helps the family go on.

A man should be satisfied with what he has, be loyal to his wife, be duty oriented and responsible, protect and nurture the family and lastly physically he should be able to satisfy his wife.

1. A man who is satisfied and content even after managing household expenses despite having meagre l resources is really lucky as he has the mindset which is rarely found even in the extremely rich.
2. Setting up a relationship with another woman who is not his wife, means he has ruined the peace in his family with his own hands. He should be loyal to his wife like a dog would be to the owner.
3. Raising a family comes with its own set of responsibilities and duties. The one who performs his duties with an alertness of a dog, which is alert 24x7 for the safety of its owner. He also should be able to spot internal enemies that try to break the unity and peace in the family.
4. If it requires for a man to sacrifice his own life for the sake of wife and family, he better do it. He should be prepared for any such eventuality.
5. This, is an important trait which a man should necessarily have. Physically he should provide a satisfying experience for his wife.