Chanakya Niti: Three Types Of People You Should Never Abandon Even In Dreams

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Acharya Chanakya has meaningful advice to give when it comes to people, life and self-management. He points at three categories of people who according to him, must never be alienated from our life. Who are those three categories of people? How to do they matter in our lives?

When two people stay together they share their burdens and moments of their happiness. By sharing sorrow, it lessens. By sharing happiness, it doubles. Having a happy life is not always about experiencing good events and making the right moves all the time. It is also about how you manage yourself in times of adversities. It is about how train your mind to give the right reaction to situation and then take things calmly, in a composed way and go on with life as usual.

When we are battling our life alone, there are some people who come in handy to lift us out of despair, to help us regain balance of life, and help us to go on with life in a wise manner. These are the ones whom you should not remove from your life. Chanakya has a verse which explains the characteristic feature of all these three types of people.

1. Best friend

A man is known by the company he keeps. If you have a good-natured friend, he will automatically show you the direction that you have to take automatically and elevates your social status as well. A good friend is like a conscience who will guide you always in the right path in your life. They are your selfless well-wishers. Chanakya says that they are our good Samaritans in times of pain and pressure.

We should not remove them from our closest circle of well-wishers with whom we maintain a bond thicker than blood. Other people may come and go but these people come to your life to stay forever. They are not experiences; they are rather the rewards of your good karma that god sent for you.

2.. Sensible Wife

It may sound rather cliched to say that a faithful partner is the best blessing from God to us. But any day, a wife with a humane approach, a cultured disposition and pragmatic sensibilities is a blessing in disguise from God. Because in difficult straits, she is there to lend her willing ears and helping hands. Also, she handles the situation along with you.

Her supportive gestures will give you the courage to face any situation. Even if she is not there in your life, life does not turn into a total blessing anyway. It has its ups and downs no matter who is there in your life or not. So, it takes two to win the challenges comfortably. She shields you from difficulties whenever required. Such a person is a gem to have and never think of getting rid of them.

3. Son

Children are our fortunes who stand by us in times of our trouble. So care should be taken to groom them into civilised, virtuous and responsible individuals. Every parent wants his child to bring him a good name and save the reputation of his family. Take care to bring them up in a good manner in their early childhood and adolescence and they will grow up to be someone you will treasure all through your life.

These well brought up children will be a source of pleasure and relief in your advanced years. Ensure that they will not fall into vices. Such children will never let their parents grieve because of them. Parents with such children will never be alone in their difficult times.

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