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Problems That Every New Couple In An Arranged Marriage Faces
Arranged marriages are essentially fixed by the parents. Nearly 80% of Indians prefer arranged marriages. Many people who believe problems don’t arise in this concept have faced a lot of issues after getting hitched.
Arranged marriage is a pre-historic concept that is very much practised in our society. Does it imply that arranged marriages are successful? Does it mean that two people who had an arranged marriage are understanding and comfortable? Whether you marry the person you love or somebody your parents choose for you, as a couple, there will always be some or the other issues after the marriage.
Arranged marriages usually take place in India either by the merit of caste or religion or family connections without even caring to know the partner before tying the knot. It is because the families are more unbending about their choice and later some couples live to regret it.
Parents often prefer arranged marriages for their offspring as insisting upon it will ensure their child stays attentive to religious beliefs. More importantly, the problem in Indian arranged marriages is that it takes a bit longer for the couple to understand each other’s thought process.
Here are some of the arranged marriage problems.
Adjusting With In-laws
Every marriage requires some adjustment and if you were recently married into a conventional family, you could find it difficult to learn the ropes and find a balance. Most headstrong women find it problematic to compromise on their lifestyle.
Most
women
who
face
problems
in
Indian
arranged
marriages
find
it
difficult
to
follow
certain
expectations
such
as
the
clothes
to
wear,
social
gatherings
to
attend
and
food
habits
to
follow.
Most
couples
in
arranged
marriages
will
have
to
work
twice
as
hard
to
keep
their
relationship
unwavering
and
strong.
Responsibility And Blame
The other problem in Indian arranged marriages is more responsibilities and expectations. It literally means that both partners need to be accountable for their own actions. In times of difficulty, the couple doesn’t accept the mistake on their part and deflects it to their families or friends when things go wrong.
In
an
arranged
marriage,
the
strong
sense
of
commitment
is
essential
to
save
the
marriage.
And
when
there
is
no
mutual
trust
and
understanding
between
couples,
it
becomes
impossible
to
fill
the
loopholes
in
the
marriage.
Both
partners
are
relentlessly
under
pressure
to
make
the
marriage
work.
Pre-marital Jitters
Most new couples in an arranged marriage go through pre-marital jitters and the most prominent reason is fear of sharing space with a stranger. Most newly married couples fear adjusting with an unknown partner. Getting to adjust with the in-laws and relatives can cause anxiousness. These are some of the problems most couples face in Indian arranged marriages.
Financial Worries
Most men have to bear the responsibilities of the family after marriage. Even though his wife is working and earning, it doesn’t reduce his duty of providing financial security to her. In arranged marriages, men feel pressurised as they have to prove their worth by maintaining financial stability throughout their life.
Cribbing
Both the partners are not aware about each other's likes and dislikes. If you are the bride, you could feel stressed immediately after marriage as you will be constantly corrected on the things that you need to follow in the house.
If he or she is stressed out, then there are chances of both of you complaining or cribbing about petty issues and this can create havoc in your marriage. Constant complaining about the partner are some of the problems that are persistent in Indian arranged marriages.
These are the 5 most common problems that most Indian newly arranged married couples face.
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