Deal With Men, Make Them Do What You Want!

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Gowri Nandini

By Nandhini Devi

Tuesday, August 2, 2011, 11:12

You reach home and you see that the wet towel is on the bed, the plates that need to washed are still on the table, and a lot more that is not in place. You have told your man umpteen number of times about how he needs to change his habits, but all goes in vain. No matter what you do, most of the times you just cannot get him to do what you want. You just cannot seem to find a way to deal with men!

If you are still unmarried, or planning to get married shortly, then we have some simple tips that will help you deal with men and get them to do what you want. Married women, however, might feel dealing with husband, a little tedious when compared to the unmarried women.

Check out the simple tips to deal with men and get them to do what you want!

1.Let your husband or boyfriend or fiancee know about your likes and dislikes. You can do this by telling him outright (in case he is really one of the kinds who just cannot seem to read your feelings) or by making gestures like standing sullenly in front of a jewellery shop or praising the hero (in a movie) who is buying presents for his lady love.

2.Refrain from doing certain tasks, if he is not pitching in his help. Things like cleaning the garage or mowing the lawn will gradually come to his attention, and he will work towards it one fine day. Seeing the extra work that has piled will make him realise that he has to do it on a regular basis to avoid too much work. This is one way to deal with men and husbands.

3.Request him. Yes, you'll have to let go of your ego and sweet talk to him about doing a particular chore. Similarly remember to boost his ego too. When he has completed the task appreciate him, even if the task has not been done up to our expectations.

4.Try not ask him to do a particular task at the end of the day or nag him about any annoying thing that he has done during the day. Considering the fact that he is tired after work, he will resort to annoying you more with his habits.

5.Check the his schedule before assigning the task. If your hubby is planning to meet his pals, in half an hour's time, do not try to squeeze in a task before he leaves. This will irritate him more and he'll refrain from doing things that you want.

Before you follow these tips, remember that dealing with men might not work the first couple of times. Men and relationships take time to set, so do not hurry. Whatever, is the reason, stay put and put in all your efforts follow these relationship advice to get what you want from your husband. It is sure to be rewarding in the long run!