Cons of Arranged Marriage Now Revealed

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Denise Baptiste

By Denise Baptiste

Tuesday, December 14, 2010, 12:43

Planning to walk down the aisle soon but not sure if you should! If you are wondering whether an arranged marriage is one of the ways to get into a relationship with the person you wish to spend your life and find love, then think again.

Cons of arranged marriage is in number if one pays close attention to it. A love marriage is far more better than an arranged marriage.

Here below are some of the cons of arranged marriage which might help you to turn around and fall in love first with someone you desire to spend your future with.

1.It is important for one to have a mind of your own when it comes to getting married. No doubt, an arranged marriage is one that is traditional. But, when it comes to tying the knot, the woman and the man have to make their own decisions on their life partner other than letting another choose their mate.

2.First get to know each other and then love blossoms. This is one statement most of the parents tell their adult children. Getting into an arranged marriage is dangerous as you get married to a person you do not know. The feeling of love in the marriage takes a second stand as both of the individuals are unknown. Love lost in a marriage is one of the most frequent Cons of arranged marriage.

3.One common cons of arranged marriage is that the person who arranges the marriage finds what interests him/her personally other than the couple's interests. Usually the girl's side looks for a man who is wealthy for their daughter to live in richness.

4.What usually happens in an arranged marriage is that the person who arranges for the couple to get married gets carried away with his/her personal interest and values. For instance, the arranger would look to see if the boy or girl is wealthy, but for the couple they would want to find love first. Each one's interest and values are different, so this is one main cons of arranged marriage.

5.Incapability is one such thing that causes a marriage to break. Most couples who have got into an arranged marriage usually find that they are incapable for each other and thus find a way to end the marriage.

An arranged marriage maybe a true way to find love, but it comes with these disadvantages.