How To Make Your Family Members Organized?

Thursday, March 4, 2010, 12:05

A house becomes home, as there is synchronization in tastes and behaviour of its family members. However in today"s world, even a family with two or three members will have hundreds of deviated ways. In that case, if you are seeking an organized family, here are some tips that will aid you to reach the aim.

The Dos in organizing your family:

As you plan the routine and budget for the family, cunningly arrange a time where everyone can sit and talk.

Now praise each member for their unique tastes like your husband"s excellence in travel arrangements, father in law"s punctuality, mother-in-law"s culinary skills, sister"s interior arrangement"s, children"s" obedience etc.

Convince them to organize a budget and routine for the family where each person will get their duties and allowance.

Make the idea more interesting with funny plans. For instance the other members in the family will gift the best family member at the end of the week. On the other hand if you falter, the other members will decide your punishment.

Take a break from the organized routine with your family, at least once in a month. Go out for shopping, tour, and cinemas or for pilgrimage forgetting the normal chores of life.

The don"t s in organizing your family:

The first rule in organizing your family is not to pressurize or nag the family members to come in your way. Start the venture with everyone"s consent only.

Never degrade any of the family members in front of anyone outside the family.

Never blackmail or bribe the family members to do their duties.

Always give respect to the elders and help the younger ones during this practice.

An organised family is not a hassle but; a fun place to be in. Cherish your time in the ideal situation created by your small efforts.