The Myth Behind Super Duper Couple

Marriage And Beyond

oi-Staff

By Staff

Thursday, December 11, 2008, 6:10

As I watched the bollywood movie Honeymoon Travels Pvt. Ltd, I felt that every couple in this world might wish to become the super duper couple and not the common couple who walk on earth. At least I wished so. It was a time that I was having a lot of issues against my husband and immediately wanted a paradise to erupt for us where we can live peacefully out of the chores of normal life.

As natural, issues faded in the course of time and I really felt that we are the super duper couple who can never fight in this lifetime. Again there come the next issues. I started to feel frustrated with these ongoing setbacks. Then, the light loomed over me. It is during these
ongoing fights that my husband and me love more intensely than ever. After the initial spurt outs, we longingly look forward for the reunion that may not happen so soon due to our towering egos.

After the reunion, when we look back at the issues, the reasons may seem very simple as a look, a comment, an unattended reply or anything like that. However at that time we would have added the reasons of the previous quarrels with the present reasons to make our arguments stronger. When the arguments come to a complete conclusion our minds will be as clear as the sunshine that comes after a rainy day.

You also might have arguments with your partner like this in the day-to-day life. I understand that the long advises of lowering your egos, to see yourself in other"s shoes, to recognize your mistakes etc. may not your heated head. However, take a moment and think whether you can live without your partner. Well, in that heated moment you may even feel that is possible. In that case take a look at the future events that you all had planned together. You want someone to accompany you, right? You are being selfish but see how that conclusion gives you a sense of happiness to both of you.

There is no myth in the idea of a super duper couple. In fact majority of the couples in this world, who undergo the normal chores of life are super duper couple. You understand the real charm of love and live fully devoted to each other. You realize that your fights make your life more confront the real life situations and above all stay happy or contended. It is part and parcel of your marital bliss. The ups and downs in lives enable you to taste the real fruit of life. Otherwise how monotonous and dull your life would"ve been!