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Signs Of Cheating In Marriage

By Super Admin

Extra marital affairs is an ever concerned marital problem. When your partner is cheating you, it is never pleasant. Understand the cheating signs that are clear indications of an extra marital relationship.

Change in schedule
If your partner's schedule changes dramatically for no reason other than the long working hours, you need to be a little suspicious.

Change in grooming habits
When your partner radically changes the way that he or she smells, shaves, etc., you might be seeing a sign of their attempt to impress someone else.

Change in sex life
You might find that your sex life changes dramatically when your partner is cheating. They might be trying new things in bed suddenly or have no interest in having sex at all.

Late night phone calls
Any phone calls that your partner might take in the middle of the night or at strange times of the day can be an indication that they are hiding a relationship from you.

More seclusion time
When your partner begins to pull away from you and spend more time on the computer or in another part of the house, you might be seeing the signs of an extra marital affair.

Unexplained purchases
There are some partners that will not cover their tracks as well and may leave gifts they received or receipts for gifts that they bought for their lover around the house. These unexplained purchases can be a clear indication of the extra marital affair.

Last minute trips
Few jobs will suddenly take your partner for last minute trips away from home. When you start to see this happening so often without a good reason, it is time for you to get suspicious.

Emotional withdrawal

Your partner doesn't speak to you about personal feelings. Not only that, but your partner seems aloof, detached, and even irritable. He/She might pick fights for no apparent reason as an indication to show the irritation to you.

Invasion of the "friendship" snatcher
Your partner spends time alone with someone of the opposite sex, who is referred to as a "good friend. But your partner is extremely defensive of the friendship, even insulting you for suggesting something isn't right. While their friendship seems strong, you and your partner are less friendly. Be vigilant of the missing link at this time.

Dishonesty
You have caught your partner in a lie, or several, about his whereabouts or activities. Something he/she has told you doesn't make sense. It is time for you to have an open conversation

Money talks
There is financial tension in the home. He/she is monopolizing the bank accounts and keeping you in the dark. You may notice that money has disappeared without a reasonable explanation. There may be strange bills, or missing bills. Your partner seems unusually possessive with money.

Road signs
There is unexplained mileage on the car. It is cleaner than usual, and your car gas expenses have gone up.

Always keep in mind that these signs are not the inevitable signs of cheating. Once you start feeling suspicious, get your partner for an open conversation rather than grooming the green eyed monster in you!

Story first published: Wednesday, June 29, 2011, 15:40 [IST]