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Things To Think After You End The Relationship
As much as it is fun to be in a relationship, it is also sad when it comes to its end.
But after the break-up, it is the main learning period for you. You start going through your relationship timeline just to find where all did it go wrong. You start thinking about it in a varied perspective.
This post-break-up phase is the main learning period, wherein you see all the flags, red, green and yellow.
The red flags indicate the core problems. The yellow ones indicate minute errors, which can be easily avoided. The green indicates everything as perfect as it should be.
You start finding the glitches from where it started and where it ended and how it became the main cause for the relationship to not work.
You see all these need to happen, in order to learn and not do the same mistakes again in the next. If you don't learn yet, then you are certain that you will keep getting into relationships and later come out of it.
In order to find out the red and yellow flags, I have summed up certain points wherein you can find your learning.
So, here are the questions that you need to ask yourself and learn after a break-up.
Things To Think After You End The Relationship
1.
Notice
the
signs
that
are
red
flags.
Rewind
your
memory
to
the
start
of
the
relationship,
and
think
about
the
wrongs
you
happened
to
do
in
the
relationship.
Make
a
note
of
it.
This
will
help
you
in
not
repeating
the
same
the
next
time
you
feel
like
getting
into
a
relationship.
The
measures
you
will
take
to
revise
will
be
evident
in
the
next
relationship.
2. Make a note of the empty promises.
Remember to filter out the empty promises that were given to you and know that there will again come in the next relationship. Since you have figured out these are empty and have no value, you will stop listening to such promises.
3. Remember the mistakes of your ex
After
noticing
your
mistakes,
it
is
time
for
you
to
remember
the
mistakes
of
your
ex.
It
is
true
that
there
will
be
mistakes
from
your
ex's
side
too.
Notice
them.
The
reason
behind
it
is
you
will
know
these
are
the
mistakes
that
triggered
you.
You
get
angry
or
irritated,
annoyed
and
sad.
These
mistakes
if
repeated
in
your
next
relationship,
you
would
know
how
to
deal
with
it
without
getting
angry
or
irritated.
4. Change yourself
You
don't
want
to
be
the
same
person
as
you
were
in
this
relationship.
You
will
want
to
change
for
good
and
in
the
next
relationship,
you
will
want
to
give
your
better
version.
Plan
it
how
you
will
be
for
your
next
relationship.
What
all
changes
will
you
bring
that
would
help
you
have
a
proper
relationship
must
also
be
taken
care
of.
5. Think of what all ways you can work it out in the next relationship
Normally, people after a break-up get into another relationship without even analyzing what went wrong in the previous relationship. This is one big reason why the next relationship will also be a failure.
Focus on the deal breakers of the past relationship. Think of what works for you and your partner in the relationship and that way, you will know how to manage the next relationship without thinking too much.
All it requires for people who get into break-up is another partner. But that is wrong. Often getting into a relationship is okay after a break-up, only when you know where all did you go wrong in the past and how can you avoid those in the next.
Key to having a better relationship is by understanding your previous relationships. That way, you can be certain that if the current relationship doesn't work out, it is because there are new issues here and you got to figure out what they are.
Every relationship is an experience of learning.
Utilize the above-mentioned 5 points in reforming yourself and keep in mind the loopholes for the next relationship.
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