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Are Your Expectations Too High In Your Relationship?

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Too many expectations can kill a relationship. Be it your love life or your friend's, any type of a relationship can be killed by the burden of your own expectations.

Well, we are not asking you to never have expectations from your partner, but you should also make sure not to go beyond the limit. In the end, it will only break your heart and may create differences between the two of you.

In this article, we are here to share examples of some of the unrealistic expectations that could ruin a relationship.

Life's high expectations are something that need to be curbed at the right time. If you do not do it, then there are chances of your relationship getting spoilt.

One needs to understand that love and relationships happen for a reason, and spoiling these beautiful gifts of life for ego and high expectations is something that is just not done.

So, read on to know more about how relationships get damaged at the cost of high expectations and ego clashes.


Your Relationship Is Not Supposed To Complete You!

Yes, you read it right! One should always have some "me" time to breathe in, without their partner being around. Remember to always give space to your partner for the relationship to flourish.


Relationships Aren't Supposed To Define You

If you think that people are going to judge you based on the popularity of your partner, then you are totally wrong mate!


He/She Need Not Have To Agree All The Time

If your partner puts their foot down and disagrees to something, then accept it. They are not tools or robots to agree for everything.


They Are Not Going To Be Hot All The Time

Remember the fact that your partner cannot be dolled up all the time. They will go sans without makeup, and that is something you have to accept.


You Are Not First On Their List All The Time

Do not expect your partner to treat you as priority Number 1 all the time. Accept the fact that there are other important things happening in his/her life as well.


He/She Cannot Be Everything That You Wanted

Do not expect him/her to be the perfect dream boy/girl that you've always wanted. You cannot change a person just because you have high expectations. You need to accept them for what they are.

Read more about: love, romance, relationship
Story first published: Friday, April 29, 2016, 15:00 [IST]
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