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Does Online Dating Really Work?

By Deepa Ranganathan

When everything is going online, why should the dating world be left behind? Our world revolves around the internet and we are slowly becoming slaves to technology with no time for ourselves. You don't really have time to go out there to look for a date. So, what do you do? Log on to some dating site, create a profile and start hunting for girls/guys who you can get romantically involved with.

"Does online dating actually work," is a question that remains unanswered. While there are many people dating online regularly, the question remains whether or not they've managed to have successful relationships. There are many out there who have found their life partners in the process of dating online but, quite a few have burnt their hands as well. Listening to both school of thoughts, it's quite a debate which one to believe and to find out if things actually work in online dating.

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Well, firstly there's always this fear of meeting someone who seems very different from what his online profile says about him. Considering all this, online dating is a questionable source for people who want a romantic involvement. However, it has also worked out for a lot of people.

Does Online Dating Really Work?

Let's see the pros and cons of dating online.

Variety At A Click
You don't have to travel the town to find your perfect date. You don't even have to make do with people in your office. You can explore the dating sites that promise people of your age and city to figure out your perfect date. And you can explore your options while sipping a cup of coffee within the comforts of your home.

No Option Outside
Sometimes you are tied to work in such a way that you just don't have enough time to make friends and go around the town. You do want someone who can be your friend and be with you. You want to have those fun chats, flirty conversations but have no one to do that with. Online dating aides you in these things!

Finding Love
You are tired of being single and are looking out for someone to share your life with. You can visit these online dating sites and find loads of single men/women of your age and probably date one of them. It's easy to find the one who complements you perfectly. You can talk to the person well before you actually meet him. Who knows, the person might just be the one for you.

Communication
If you have been working on it for long, you would know that communication is the key to make online dating sites work for you. Your profile should communicate your ideas and should have something about you that can attract people. Don't share personal information but do share what you are looking for.

Safety Concerns
Even if online dating sites work, how safe are they? While online, you can meet a variety of people in the comfort of your home. But this can raise safety concerns too. There could be those waiting to hound you, pester you to meet and probably are not as good as they seem to be. Then there are those who create fake profiles that seem genuine enough. You will come across people who pose to be somebody they are not!

Being Webbed
With technology like video conversations coming into being, you never know what is actually happening on these dating sites. While you have a normal conversation, people could misuse your videos or still photos taken from these videos. A lot of cases of people being webbed have been registered. So if you are one of those who believe that online dating does work, just be cautious while you are at it!

It's difficult to decide which to believe, the version where people found their perfect mate on these sites or the one where people have been webbed. Online dating is still in its evolving stage but you have to be very careful of what you share.

Story first published: Tuesday, January 28, 2014, 18:14 [IST]
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