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5 Common Mistakes That Lead To A Breakup

People, at one point or another, commit mistakes that may have long-lasting ramifications. Although the intentions aren't in consonance with how things eventually turn out, certain things can serve as major impediments to a healthy relationship. However, lovely and entrancing the time one spends in a relationship is, relationships can sometimes become fragile. The line between a breakup and being together is thin indeed. So what kind of mistakes lead to a relationship breakup? This article speaks about the common mistakes that lead to a breakup.

5Common Mistakes That Lead To A Breakup

The communication break:
Constant communication is an essential for any healthy relationship. A dearth or lack of conversation between couples can certainly strain the relationship. It is necessary to ascertain what is causing the conversation to slack in order to make appropriate amends. Remember, communication is what conveys passion and love among other aspects that construct a strong and healthy relationship.

Going overboard in expectations and losing control over oneself:
Sometimes, mutual agreements in relationships can be a cause of uneasiness. Making decisions that do not conform to either one's comfort are common in relationships. Decisions such as marriage and some others that require a good deal of effort from your partner have to be approached with caution, especially when you know for yourself that you aren't ready for it.

Don't take arguments to the next day
Constant and timely arguments are quite common among couples. Although most couples take arguments to the next day, others have understood the fact that overnight arguments carried on to the next day can pose a serious hindrance to a healthy relationship. Coming to speak of it, who would want to be fighting on the same point for days? So think before you act ludicrous by carrying trivial issues to the next day. This is one of the common mistakes that lead to a breakup.

Keeping secrets
This is perhaps the most serious contender in ending a relationship. Hiding facts from your partner can be disastrous at times, even going to end the relationship for the better or worse. Keeping secrets from your partner forces you to lie many a time, which goes on to breed an atmosphere of mistrust. So, try not to keep secrets from your partner. Going by what is said, it certainly isn't wrong to keep secrets. But make sure you're good at it.

Sex
Sex is one of the most important aspects in any relationship. Denial of sex will unfailingly cause a dent in the relationship. It is imperative that sex isn't considered as a mere favour in a relationship. Denying your partner sex can cause a lot of issues, including mistrust and eventual disinterest. It is recommended that you approach this aspect in the right spirit with dialogue and the right intention. Remember, in this defiled world, people can go to any extent to satisfy themselves sexually.

Keeping these points in mind can preclude a relationship breakup considerably. Remember these points and try and incorporate them in your relationship.

Story first published: Friday, May 30, 2014, 19:12 [IST]
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