Are You In Love Or In attraction?

We fall in love with the idea of falling in love. This 'idea' is the attraction. Though the two terms love and attraction have different definitions, they always follow each other. The tricky smile which comes to your lips when you hear the term attraction is the definition which it is associated to, but none of us wants to admit to be the victim of the same and the warmth you feel with term love, is a thing which everyone is looking for. attraction is the sexual drive, which makes one blind of good and bad and can get the most opposite personalities together on bed.

Love on the other hand, is the most pure form of feeling, which can get two different personalities gel into one mold. Love between a girl and a boy, is purely traced by attraction. Cupid arrow too is dipped in the manna of attraction. It is the same for both men and women. This thought is supported by the recent study which claims that women bosom, is the first thing to attract men, while men's strong body is the first thing to attract women. Thus, the introduction starts from the body type. Both are aware of the fact and the effect can be seen in the clothes they wear. A girl would always prefer to look her sexiest self when meeting a boy and vice versa.

Thus, looks is the first thing to attract the opposite sex. Looks, needless to say raises the attraction, which wants to win the other over.Though, attraction has the potential to lead the relation to love but the fire of attraction has a short life. Once it burns up, the attraction too vanishes into the thin air. Thus, it is advised to hold on to the attraction and this gives time to the individuals to love each others thinking other than body alone. The caution is that both love and attraction have the quality to make the other blind. Men specially, are very sensitive to attraction.

Thus, in most cases, men are seen to get indulged in extra marital affair. They, throw logic and reason out of their mind. attraction has made many men go broke. Women on the other hand like to burn in attraction but handicapped to the inbuilt trait, they always seek protection. Women too give away to men but many are victim to emotional torture. What's difficult is to know whether you are in love or in attraction. attraction is something which will never attach you to the person emotionally and love is something which will bound you to be with that person all your life. So, you are in love or attraction?