Tips To Kindle Your Romance

By Priya Devi

Friday, May 21, 2010, 15:18

The best weapon to win over your girl is to be romantic. Men can be handsome, charming, caring but when it comes to romance, they seem to be a bit confused. The first lesson for you is that, romance does not necessarily mean being sensuous. Romance means showering your love. The expression of love is called being romantic.

Australian model Miranda Kerr has offered men ten tips on how they can get romantic harmony -

1.Treat Her Like Goddess

Submission is the mantra for marital peace. Girls like to be the leaders. Satisfy her leadership needs. Do what will please her, listen to her speak and give all your attention to her. Nothing, makes a girl more happy than being treated like the most important.

2.Pamper Her

Girls are delicate and sensitive. They need someone to take care of them. They like someone on whom they can depend on. Pampering her would mean to fulfil all that she wishes, from shopping to kitchen, be with her all the time. No matter how independent girls have become, somewhere they still want to be dependent. Understand that.

3.Be Healthy

A guy who is continuously complaining about his health, can be very bugging. Though she loves the person in you, your looks also matter a lot. Go with the trend. The concept of tall, dark and handsome still exists. A broad shoulder on which she can lean for support is most romantic.

4.Baby Sitter

Looking after the baby is 24x7 job and can get very hard for your love. Step in to be a baby sitter and relieve her of all the tension. She is sure to appreciate your concern and this the most romantic moment you have spent with her.

5.Tell Her She Is Beautiful

Every girl on this Earth, craves to look the most beautiful. No matter how many times the mirror confirms the fact, the truth for her is, 'beauty lies in the eye of the beholder'. She wants to listen to it from you and see the praise in your eyes.

6.Show Her Your Love

Love till the time not expressed, is not complete. Bestow your love to her. Share sweet nothings, spend quality time with her, a peck on her cheek, a careless hug is all which will assure her of your love.

7.Know What Your Want

She does not expect you to know everything. Your asking her the most silliest thing won't spoil anything. Ask her if you don't know. Even if it is a doubt which you have regarding one of her friends speak it out. A clear relationship is always successful.

8.Connect With Her

Two different human beings will have different understanding and different views. The mantra of success in relationship is to understand her views and reasons rather than sticking to ones own. Connect with her thoughts and ways of life. This will make her happy.

9.Listen To Her

It is the characteristic of girls to have their own opinion on every topic. Listen to her. Even if you don't find it interesting, just listen. Girls love to be listened to. This will assure her of your complete attention. The smile on her face, will make you happy too.

10.Buy The Right Size

What puts off a girl is that his guy, buys her a dress which does not fit her. It may be quite obvious but if you buy her the right size, she will feel you know her so well. Guys, are know to be bad shoppers but if you turn to be a good one, it will make her feel special.

As Kerr herself, she reveals, “In my experience, it is the random small gestures that I find the most romantic. It could be something as simple as making me a cup of tea or being given a foot massage while we are watching a movie at home after a long day at work. If more men made an effort to do these little things for their partner throughout their everyday life they would be guaranteed to have a more romantic relationship.