Why Do Women Dream Unreciprocated Love?

Love And Romance

oi-Staff

By Staff

Thursday, February 19, 2009, 14:23

Are you wondering why he hasn"t called you after the first date? Are you trying to redial his mobile number that rang for several times and stopped within the last one hour? Are you thinking that he"s shy or busy for not talking with you? Wait! This is an unreciprocated affair. Then why you are dreaming of it?

Women have a tendency to chase the men who are just not into them. The fair gender believes that they have the ability to change any man"s mind and can live happily with him. Even when the attraction may not be mutual, women make excuses to chase a man of her desire. Upon that the societal belief of a woman"s worth measured by her ability to find and keep a man also encourages to engage in this chase.

The truth behind this shameful act of women is their low self-esteem. Women who engage frequently in situations or relationships with men who are not interested in them, do not value themselves. The neglect the signs of disinterest in men without realizing that their persuasion just changes man"s reaction to them in a certain scenario.

It is always better for a woman to find happiness within herself rather than waiting for men to call or commit. If women can learn to empower themselves, give themselves due credit and know when to walk away from a dysfunctional situation or relationship, it will free them up to meet someone who is genuinely interested. Always understand that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and recognition.