How to judge the best proposal?

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He got down on one bended knee, with red roses in his hand and asked in his deepest voice, " will you be my valentine?" This is the dramatic scene, which every lover boy plays to win his sweet heart. But how do you know that he is truly in love with you? Here are few guidelines to judge the best proposal on this Valentine's Day? So, read on lest you fall into a wrong relationship.

If Mr. X's proposal was a total surprise then do not accept it at the very moment. Be polite and thank him for his wonderful gesture while asking for some time to think over it. On the other hand if you were waiting for that proposal after knowing the person well, then grab the flowers and say, " I will". Let the love bells ring.

Spend some time with the person every day after Valentine's Day to know him more. See the way he reacts with his friends, family and co-workers. Ask yourself can you live with such a person for your entire life. If yes; don't make him wait long to whisper those magic words, " I love you". If no; walk back as soon as possible since someone else is waiting for you.

When you are dating, check whether the person is committed. Your dating styles set the tone for how your future dates should unfold. If he says he cannot commit until he is settled then he means, "I cant even take care of myself, don't expect me to take care of you". Be aware that you may have a hole in your pocket and your heart for the rest of your life.

If he hates talking about his past and avoids direct questions; he has a bad history or a bad story. The first rule of dating is to be true and not to hide or shy away with the past, for any person in a relationship would want their partners to be true.

Check whether he includes you when he makes important decisions of life. Or rather see whether he talks about a future that does not include you. These sentences point out that he does not want you as a part in his future life.

Investigate with the people you know, whether he is still in frequent and regular contact with his ex girlfriends (if he had any). If he is, then he thinks that you are not the number one in his life. On the contrary if he uses abusive languages about his ex girlfriend, stay away for it is sure that he hates the race 'Women' as he is hurt.

Keep these clauses in your mind when you have a proposal this year. Accept the best one for a wonderful future and remember that looks can cheat you but not the heart. So explore his heart before you accept his ring.

To end with, here is an interesting proposing lines for men that my friend Jacob uttered to win his sweetheart near a riverbank. They are getting married after five years of dating. Use it if it helps.

" You are too good to this world, but I am just the opposite. I have all the bad habits that you can think of. I am known for my temper, I can just knock down anybody for the silliest reason. My parents tried to reform me so did the priest and my friends but nothing worked until I met you. I think I am a changed person now. I want to lead a life like you (pause) with you... will you be my valentine for life?"