Women, Beware Of These Signs When In A Relationship

How to see red flags in relationship? Here are some simple tips that might help you.

By Subodini Menon

Thursday, June 29, 2017, 9:27 [IST]

The need to find a partner and a mate is perhaps almost universal. Who doesn't crave for a person to talk to, a shoulder to lean on and warm arms to cuddle into?

As women, we all want that special someone in our lives sooner rather than later. We all yearn for someone to share the special moments and occasions with, someone who would support us through thick and thin.

But this yearning may make us jump into relationships that are not really good for us. Subconsciously, you might even be aware that something is wrong in the relationship and that everything is not the way it should be.

But we choose to ignore all the red flags that prop up in our minds. We need to realise that being in a bad relationship is not good for us in any way. It is better to get out of such relationships as soon as possible.

But how would you recognise these red flags?

We, at Boldsky, have put together some signs that you need to keep an eye out for, dear ladies. If any of these signs are present in your present relationship, it is better to say a goodbye to it now rather than later. Do take a look.

The Relationship Is One Sided

A relationship needs both the partners to put in that equal effort. If your partner expects you to pull more than your share of weight, it is not healthy.

If you find yourself doing all the chores, picking up the grocery and doing all the laundry, you need to wonder how involved is he in your relationship.

He Is Not Really Into The Relationship Emotionally

Long-term plans may not be on the cards when it comes to your relationship, but you need to know whether he is really committed to you or not.

If he is not committed to you completely, know that the relationship can fall apart at any moment. During a fight, does he casually talk about ending the relationship? If he does, he may not be really invested in your relationship emotionally.

He Has A Big Ego

When in a relationship, the word ego shouldn't even exist. Your partner is your better half and it is impossible to bring up ego when you both are so close. Does he apologise for his mistakes? Does his ego get hurt for paltry things? If so, the relationship will not last for long.

There Is A Lot Of Secrecy From His Side

If you are living together and there are things that you don't know about him, you need to be suspicious. Does he talk about his family and friends?

Have you met them? Does he talk to you about his dreams, aspirations, disappointments and worries? If the answer is 'NO' to these questions, you must understand that you are just a number in his dating game. He is not here for a lasting relationship.

Communication Is Absent In The Relationship

Communication is very important in a relationship. When in a committed relationship, couples tend to share everything about their lives. If your partner does not even talk to you about anything, you need to worry.

His Sense Of Humour Is Not Really Funny

The things that make a person laugh really tell you about the person's character. If your partner loves throwing insults disguised as jokes, it is unlikely that you will find it to be funny. Any kind of an off-sense humour should be considered as a red flag right away.