Man Or Woman, Who Is Fast Cured After A Break-Up?

A common joke regarding love breakup goes like this: When a relationship ends, a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends, and she will write a poem titled "All Men Are Idiots". Then she will get on with her life. But a man has a little more trouble letting go. Six months after the break-up, at 3:00 am. on a Saturday night, he will call and say, "I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life, and I will never forgive you, and I hate you, and you're a total floozy. But I want you to know that there is always a chance for us." The message needs no explanation. Women get cured much faster than male counterparts after a break-up, how heart breaking it might be.

99% of all men, who had a break-up, should have made such a phone at least once. Girls forget past relationships easily and it is not just because they are not serious about relationships, but are more rational and realistic to face life troubles. The love of a girl is so intense that she may even sacrifice her life for the lover so is her hatred. She may blow away your life if she hates you. They always prefer the extreme paths of life. But men may love her even after a break-up because as circumstances change most men change accordingly.

Relationship experts say that a girl will never forget her first lover even after she is married. But most men simply are proud about the long list of girlfriends and affairs. Seems contradictory, right? If a values her affairs so much, then how could she be cured easily than man. If a man considers affairs so silly, how can he be painful about a broken relationship for long? The answer is simple. Just because women take relationships seriously they will not be ready to make make life adjustments. Once she finds that a person is ill-fitting to her she will prudently withdraw herself from the relationship. She may remember the person forever, but will never shed tears to get back into the relationship.

Men always thrive for female relationships, and a break-up will be heart-bursting for him. A study says that "In contrast to women, men appear to derive more emotional support from their opposite-sex relationships than their same-sex friendships." If you go by the preconception that women prioritize relationships while men are more focused on themselves and their achievements, you're wrong. In fact, it is the other way round, men give priority to love affairs and everything else, even the career comes only next to romance for him.

It requires a lot of courage and strength to want to heal fast. Even though men are physically stronger, women use their emotional strength to balance the physical weakness. Thus gets cured faster than men when a break-up happens. They get on with the life faster when men weep for longer. Men are poor controllers of emotional drives. They going through the emotional roller coaster of a breakup, feeling pain, anger and depression and takes much more time than a woman to be cured after a love break-up.