How To Get A Girl's Phone Number From Her?

Relationship

oi-Staff

By Super

Thursday, April 19, 2012, 16:49

"When I think of talking, it is of course with a woman.
For talking at its best being an inspiration,
it wants a corresponding divine quality of receptiveness,
and where will you find this but in a woman?"
- Oliver Wendell Holmes

Whenever your phone sings a musical tone you hold it to your ear and say 'hello' as sweet as you can, expecting a melodious, mellifluous 'hello' in a female voice from the other end. But if it is a male voice, digging grave to all your expectations, how desperate you would grow? I can very well imagine the dark clouds that appeared on your face.

It is at this time you would definitely wish to have the phone number of a girl to whom you can whisper all that you want to say for hours and hours. But the hardest part of it, is to get the phone number of a girl who can very well fit your expectations of a sweet partner at the other end of your phone. It is not of course a good idea to say, "Can I have your number?" because you're probably getting across as insecure. How you say something is pretty much everything...way more important than the words.

When you ask a woman, "Can I get your number?" or "Can I take you out sometime?" you are setting up a losing relationship proposition for her. This is a pattern she has seen before with numerous guys who she knows are just going to end up pandering to her and letting her control the direction of the relationship. It's probably going to be the (yawn) courtship approach of 'wooing her'.

It is going to be a challenge for anyone just to get numbers off of the street unless you really do focus on techniques. But where you're coming from anyways is a guy that seems a little more desperate when you have to try and get numbers of women just walking down the street. This does seem a little creepy to them and they may not call you back. It is best to be in social or natural environments where you can interact with them without any sort of creepy context.

Although you may want to get the numbers of each and every hot women walking down the street, you have to remember that beautiful women are everywhere (at least if you are in a big city) and that you are going to have to just be a little more indifferent when it comes to walking down the street. Enjoy the eye candy and then take advantage of opportunities where it is normally acceptable to talk to people.

When you can just be casual and natural about the whole thing and not be thrown off by her beauty, she will not feel the pressure that you will keep draining the life out of her or following around at her heels. She's going to be a lot more likely to give a man who secure her phone number because she is more certain that you will not keep calling her all the time. All the 'pick up artists' are trying to fight away around just being a pure natural; it's so much work to be a 'seducer'.

So if you just start a natural conversation with a woman and just speak to her like a normal human being then she will be more open to finding out more about you as the more natural process will commence. It's up to you not to set a 'friendship' frame which I teach elsewhere, rather to by a little mysterious, cool, funny, with a sexual edge.