Why Men Fear Commitment

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There are many universal truths in the world. Some of us learn them from parents & teachers warning us about it lest we learn these truths by experience. However, to explore truths about men, it's mostly the incidence of experience that makes us realize the certain facts of life. Did I say certain? I meant certain facts about the uncertainties of men.

Most girls( I am not talking about the slut variety) are deeply perplexed about this mystery? Why do men fear commitment and marriage when it comes to devoting their life to the woman they love immensely? Why is a woman less scared of commitment? Is the man afraid of revealing his true self? Can he play the role of a provider? Yes, the questions and endless and even more confusing.

Men are freedom lovers. For many guys, the very thought of making a commitment to one woman for the rest of their lives is enough to make them shiver with fear . The dreaded "C-word" implies compromise, loss of independence, the sacrifice of sexual variety, and repeated financial losses for the rest of their life.

Men are extremely independent by nature. They like to make our own decisions and live life by their own rules. But when a woman enters the picture, all the choices a guy simply used to take for granted -- going out for a beer with his buddies, buying a big screen TV, playing golf on Saturday afternoon -- suddenly have to be cleared with her first. And her answer is almost always, "No -- we're a couple now". Almost overnight, men find themselves trapped, doing what she wants to do, regardless of his own wants or desires.

Men naturally crave sexual variety. When they commit - either in marriage or cohabitation - we willingly volunteer to cut ourselves off from any other sexual pursuits. Sexual boredom can set in, followed by a total lack of desire. Even guys who weren't getting a lot of action anyway - this can be the scariest consequence of all.

Many women look at marriage through rose tinted glasses. For them, putting a ring on their fingers means that we will magically solve all their problems, from childhood issues with their fathers to huge shopping debts incurred on credit cards. Women often submerge their true personalities and agendas until the knot is tied -- but when the truth comes out and the we find ourselves legally bound to a greedy, nagging bitch and it's too late.

There may be many reasons as to why men fear commitment. Unlike other bonds, men are also of the opinion that marriages should last forever but if you cannot find the right person , then, what the point? If you have found that special someone who can make change these truths then go ahead and tie the knot.